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Old 08-12-2008, 11:45 AM
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Thank you all for the replies!

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Originally Posted by king_david23 View Post
Think about like this - what can you take from this person and model, and then cultivate that natural quality within ourself - we dont want to lay things over the top like a bandaid - we want it to come from the inside out.

I personally am a huge Brad Pitt fan, I like to watch and model his very laid back actions - especially in The Oceans series and then ask myself - what is his focus here - what is he believeing about himself to act this way, what is he doing on the inside to replicate this? Theres a deeper level than just actions

cultivate the natural parts of yourself that are in accordance with what you wanna model - they are there...
There is a deeper level that just actions, I can see that. If you learn to think like a successful person you will still be you, but a successful you.

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Originally Posted by Lester View Post
nah man you're not making a persona... your just modeling someone, like I don't know if you had a big brother or an older cousin they might influence you some way and you're kind of like them, but you don't take up a persona... bro I think you're thinking to much about it or worried to much about it, let it go
Ok, so if you model how someone else THINK, than you are enhancing yourself by "upgrading you mental software". You are still being you. But when you are only emulating the behaviours without the backing mental processes then you are just pretending to be the source of that behaviours.

Yeah Lester, I'm far too analytical. I'm working on this

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Originally Posted by Mr. Incredible View Post
The difference is that a persona is a false IDENTITY, modelling someone is learning a SKILL that that person has.
Now it's clear, Mr. Incredible. I was missing a critical distinction between behaviours and their backing mental habits.
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