are you kidding me?
we're always going back n forth between "open" and "exclusive"
either way they're just labels
who gives a fuck?
true i do love her
i care enough about her happiness to say
if you can find a guy better than me, go for him
(which is easy to say coz we know that's gonna be fuckin' hard to do
)
in the meantime she understands that
my lifestyle entails meeting and hanging with many different people
that includes meeting new girls on a regular basis
getting numbers, flirting, whatever
the whole "open" idea is that
it's only lying and cheating if we're not honest with each other about it
we've talked about it
she believes i can get any girl i want
i believe guys would be stupid to pass her up
that's enough
and well if her parents want her to date around
and i'm already chillin' with different girls
it makes sense
weeks ago i texted a buddy saying
"i need a 2nd girlfriend"
a good one to see regularly during the day,
and crazy one or so to run around with at night.
girls crush on me, give me their numbers, and i don't pursue them
i crush on other girls and get their numbers and whatnot, hangout
and sometimes i feel a little guilty
hell a buddy of mine and i recently ended up hitting on the same chick
she was fucking amazing...
like she's doing things i wanna do later on in life
and as my bro and i headed back home
we agreed to not tell our girls about her
lol!
so it's whatever man, call it what you want
i don't even know what to call it
i just know i like seeing her and i will whenever i can
that's enough
i live a great life man
and it's even better when i'm with her
but when i'm not around her i'm having fun no matter what
she knows that
so you see
it's BECAUSE she's so open and understanding
that i'm so captivated by her
it's BECAUSE we're open to giving each other so much space
that i really don't care lots of times to mess with other chicks
it makes us want to close that space just as much
absence makes the heart grow fonder right?
she's so different from many girls i've met
who aren't as mature and high self-esteem
i lucked out with this one
i definitely wouldn't have acquired these perspectives
if i kept my ass @ the computer reading these forums all day