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Originally Posted by carpe_diem  well i coach lots of guys that get treated like "bitches" and its because they are not dominant enough, or are a push-over or are not masculine.
these guys tend to get pissed at that, and get pissed at the people who do it. BUT it has nothing to do with the people who do it to you, you cause people to treat you a certain way. How people treat you is 100% caused by you.
How people treat you is a sympton of an underlying cause, and youve got to get to the root of the problem.
First of all you need to be masculine, and by that I mean the basics of being a man. Get fit and healthy (do something physical, go the gym, play sport, do martial arts, run, do something that physically pushes yourself and tests you, and pushes your limits), dont be prone to making excuses (like get in the game of life, and when every one else is fighting to win you dont want to be on the sideline with a wimpy excuse), and be happy on your own (people who are needy, are not comfortable on their own, not independent tend to get picked on because they are not happy in their own space).
I couldnt imagine someone calling me "bitch".
If someone did I'd just smile.
Matt |
well im going to go with what you're saying, cause I can SENSE that you know what you're talking about... thanks for the great insight Matt.
oh yeah when If a million people called you a bitch, what you fight them all, not me.