It's not like shame... I'm going to try to do my best to explain because it's the only way that you guys can help me.
For you to understand what going on inside of my mind, it's like I'm always try to not be less than the girl. So for example if a smooking hotie pass my way, many times I just be indiferent but looking if she look, and if she doesn't look I think something like "I don't attract hoties or that girl is lesbian or love the atention", instead of thinking something powerfull like "what can I do for that woman find me attractive or better, how can I gain the attention of this girl and attract her".
It's weird because once I read that maybe this feeling it's because I feel bad in beed or whatever, but that's not true, because once I got a woman in my beed I truly relax and enjoy the moment and for what I listen in the moment they really enjoy to.
I think that many time I have pay attention how I being percived and try to do my best to be percived as cool. It's just a habit.
Now I'm using the attraction code in everything, from walking to the street to talking to friends or girls in wherever... What I'm doing is correcting my thoughts to more functional or more positive, and really trying to concentrate in my task or intent. I hope that with time this new toughts become permanent a be my new me.
Anyone got experience with this, how long it's take?
Thanks mr. incredible for your concern.  |