first of eliminate trying to be perceived as cool or trying to look a way that she will find attractive. It makes you qualify yourself to her. You don't really know what she wants but you do know what you want. That's what you have control over what you want.
You haven't met her so how can you know what she finds attractive? you don't, but you do know what you find attractive.
how can you know why she didn't look at you, you don't, you're not in her head, you're not a mind reader. all you know is what you know.
if you find her attractive, if you want to approach her, that's what you know.
stick to what you want, and don't try to look cool for other people. Be you.
showing your interest can be powerful and attractive. i've approached girls with "hey I think you're cute and I want to talk to you." |