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I think something like "I don't attract hoties or that girl is lesbian or love the atention"
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I think this may be an issue with negative self-talk. I've got a lot of that myself... One book on this is Shad Helmstetter's What do you say when you talk to yourself. The Sedona Method by Hale Dwoskin works too.
Or just discipline yourself to walk up and say whatever's on your mind before you think. I hope you won't say "I don't attract hotties" or "You're a lesbian", but nearly anything else is OK
