I noticed something a week ago in this girl. A very attractive girl in looks and she is also a tad exotic for this area. Her work did a bill board advertisement and she is pictured on it. My grammar has become weak because just started writing again since joining this forum. Not written anything long since school and that was 1998. Brothers best friend is Cuban and in Cuba worked at a Hotel so mostly English as his main language. Moving to America he makes himself and family use only English. Since being here for maybe 10 years, if a Spanish speaker speaks with him. He forgets a lot of words and if they speak fast he can barely understand them.
My degree is in film and television production. So have 4 years of University English courses. The teacher she made me want to be better for her. And I took her criticism well and new she was trying to make me better. So why is my grammar not very good. And my structure horrible. I seldom if ever practice what I learned. Bad habits also crept back in and has made my writing horrible. Also lose focus and wonder a bit in thoughts. My brain thinks fast and have attention deficit disorder. The other part of my degree dealt with building emotion in an audience. Say you are filming a fire at a building scene. You have a fire truck and a burning building. Fireman casually going into the building to fight this fire. When the audience watches this scene how much emotion does this create? Not much its just a building burning and the fireman are casually going inside big deal. Who cares its just a building and the professional fire fighters are not fighting very hard. Not visual with emotion. So you want the audience to care. You show the fire truck and then move to a picture of a kids toy in water with flame shadow around it. You have slow urgent music playing. The firemen in slow motion struggling up their ladders and getting inside the building. You cut to picture of other people watching a few kids that obviously lived in the building. Suddenly the audience cares. Fight the fire dammit get inside more kids could be inside. Then show a kid trapped and the firemen struggling to find him.
The girl who is exotic and looks very good for this area. Is very very nice. Like she should be teaching small children nice. Bet Women and even some men treated her like she is so hot she must be a bitch. Women especially look at her and go she can get any man--the bitch! So she became so nice even her picture makes her look uncomfortable. She has turned off her sexy a extra advantage. I'm going to tell her this the next time I see her! Your overly nice because you don't want people treating you differently because your overly attractive.... You turned off your sexy so people will like you and see a nice sweet little girl instead. Your extra advantage makes people treat you differently and you don't feel liked by Women your peers! So your too nice and even shows in your pictures.
This will sound bad. I had one of the people who work with me kids over to my house over the weekend. Have a pool. The mother was supervising. One was the son who is 16 and he brought his girlfriend. Very cute girl. I was talking cars with the kid. And telling him about my illegal street racing when I was his age.
Girlfriend: are you guys talking about cars (she was smiling)
Me: Yes. if you were not around we'd be talking about girls (smiling)
She laughed and the poor kid I was talking with cars with sat stiff stopped talking and had a oh god she is going to give me sh*t latter fear on his face. He didn't see my whip mocking towards him. She did and blushed giggled at that. She owns his a$$. He is whipped by her. The problem she can alter his behavior in seconds. A girl like that. Well she may even know subconsciously what attracted her to him. She knows other Women will see it. If its extra special and really attracts girls. She will do everything in her power to turn it off to keep her man. He will and could become like you!!!! Because he his scared she will stop loving him if he doesn't. Soon when they do break up. His subconscious will tell him no Women will love him if he turns his sexy back on..................... he becomes a nice wuss that no longer attracts Women  |