I'll admit it, I'm shallow. Looks do attract my attention, and I have a bit of a "thing" for dark skinned women - black, Indian, Asian. I'll go for a woman with that colouration even if she isn't conventionally "hot". Beyond that, she has to have her shit together. I was married to a disorganised, chaotic woman and it nearly drove me to suicide, no exaggeration. I ended up clinically depressed and with suicidal thoughts. Some success guru wrote that the right woman is essential to success and a bad one is disastrous, he wasn't wrong. Beauty is nice, but when you get right down to it, it's just a luxury. The right personality, someone who shares your ambitions and is willing to help you achieve them, is a necessity. |