If you want a 'where on the ramp does the pants come off' I would say somewhere between 'direct frontal vaginal stimulation' and railing her. I almost always take mine off after her's come off, thats just how it happens. Like this last girl I was fucking the time before last or so, I got so into it that when it came time for me to take my pants off my shoes and socks were still on and I have to totally divert my attention from her
BUT its not like that fucked up the lay at all. We just both kinda giggled, I took my shit off and we got back to it.
I would say if your getting a response like
when you take your pants off you are doing it WAY too early and she isn't 'all hot and bothered' enough. If you're getting mild resistance like she doesn't want HER pants taken off, agian same problem. Just, go back a step, heat her up, and try agian.
Also you should respect the replies to your thread especially from a trainer, try and actually listen to what they are saying. Your focus is all wrong.