Ok, so baby steps are a good place for you to start with compliance. Don't take that as an insult either, the best gains in my game have come from small observances.
Ok, first of all, the compliance request must seem natural, like everything you do.
Think of the times when you are over visiting at your friend's house, a guy or girl. Or even when you are on the phone with them. Something like this probably happened "Hey, will you get me the salt while you are up?"
"Stop by the store and get some beans for the chili please"
I am sure you get the point. And most importantly, don't think about it much at all. When the chance comes up to naturally request something, do it. Its that easy for starters. You will see improvements and ways to make larger requests as your game progresses. Learn to throw the ball, then learn how to hale merry for the touch down. |