How to build the tension so that she's the one that wants to touch you?

[CrimsonKnight]

Basically title says it all:

How do you build up the tension so that she's the one that wants to touch you?


I know that the guy is the one that is supposed to be the one making all the moves but how do you balance it so that she gets comfortable in touching u too?

[El Cuchillo]

demonstrate warm dominance

create sexual tension, qualify her, & role play

eliminate her fears and objections to sex (see Vin's post on 5 objections)

escalate using the DEL

isolate her

that usually will do the trick. she'll probably be all over you.

btw....it has been my experience that women will usually reciprocate kino evenly. ie. if you butt bump her - she'll do it back. you hit overt 2 she will respond with O2 of her own. That shows she is responding to you.


also, get your women to show compliance (ie. doing little things for you - getting you a glass of water, bringing over a movie or a bottle of wine). that way she will notice that she is putting effort into the relationship which must mean that you are important and worthy

very attractive.

LEAD!