DEL. How am I supposed to do that??

[krupnomer]

Hey guys, I've got a bit confised about DEL and especially the performing of the escalation ramp. Here's what I mean:
Vin DiCarlo wrote:

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Start the ramp very quickly once you have complete isolation in a sex location. Note that it is easier to complete the ramp while standing up or leaning against the wall as opposed to lying down.

Ok, suppose we're standing up or I'm pushing her against the wall. Steps #8 "Kissing", #9 "Kissing her Neck and Ears", #10 "Touching the bare skin of her back" - those ones can be executed without any problem. But step #11 "Stomach to stomach":

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Now that you have established touching her skin, below her shirt, simply move your hand to the front, and lift her shirt, exposing only her stomach. At the same time lift your shirt as well so that your abdomen is in direct contact with hers.
It seems innocent and unnecessary, but will meanwhile trigger intense sexual feelings inside of her. The only time she feels contact like that is usually when she's naked and having sex...

Ok, I totally believe this stomach-to-stomach thing seem to increase tension and decrease LMR... BUT with my 190cm of height a girl usually feels like she's making out with a basketball player and it's usually very weird when I'm trying to touch her stomach with mine while we're standing up
Any of you guys have any suggestions how to deal with this?

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Step #13 "Incidentally stimulate Vagina".
... While you are kissing her body you can position yourslef between her legs and use your midsection to rub against her vagina...

How am I supposed to do that while standing? Interrupting the ramp and leading her towards the couch is not beneficial to the process IMO.

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Step #14 "Direct vaginal stimulation from behind (inside panties)".
... touch her naked ass. Next move your hand all the way down and reach her vagina. Start first by touching the area around it. Then proceed to finger her from behind...

This one is easy while standing. BUT some girls object that I haven't washed my hands prior to touching their 'treasure' Sure I can ignore objections but inserting a dirty finger in there is not very good in sense of hygiene.
Anyone have ever dealt with it?