Her Comfort in touching you, You're vibe/presence

[FreeVerse]

I was actually kind of frustrated today. I've been out practicing and working on my game that I drained myself out and I didn't want to even think about dating. I got some rest, then I reviewed materials and past experiences and stickying points.

Well two things that came to mind... the DEL doesn't talk about feeling a persons vibe first. I looked back and the times that I felt that kino is very acceptable with me and a woman was when me and her where actually next to each other but barely touching. Like we can really feel each other's presences... and when I get that feeling it's like and invitation to put my hand in the small of their back and I haven't even done any incident 1 kino.

Everytime I'm in this "area" where I can feel their vibe. It feels so natural that I don't have to start with incidental one kino. I can play with their hair.

Everytime I feel that I'm in that "zone" or "area" incident touch is not necessary.

Women touch me all the time. The "incidently" touch me in the ass. They're touch my head. They whip their hair in my face. They touch every part of me... I read the other post about a woman wanting to kiss you. So next step is to take her to an isolated spot.

[Brian]

That's what happens when you get good.

The DEL goes out the window, and all there is vibe, intuition, feeling.

Often I will deliberately NOT touch a woman, just because I know that I can build more tension that way than if I were to touch her. I know she wants me to, but I dominate more by taking control of the tension dynamic.

Sounds like you're doing great man.