FR: You're my WHAT?

Freedom 35 · #1 03-19-2007, 12:10 PM

This afternoon I received a text message that there would be a party going down with some DJ's from Europe playing. I wasn't happy with my weekend up to this point so on the spur of the moment, I called in sick to work. Game on.

I texted a girl that I met last week to come out but didn't get a reply, I have been messing around with text messaging lately and think I may have blew it with this one lol. None of my friends are available this night either so it looks like I'm rolling solo.

So I get downtown and the club is pretty dead... there are a few girls around, nothing too special.

I come in after having a smoke and there is a group of girls dancing that I notice. One of them is sexy, tall, short hair, curvy hips, and knows how to use them. They're snapping photos, so I offer to take one for them. After a bit they go and sit down to rest so I go in and sit beside one of them and proceed to chat. I think I talked about the club and how dead it was. (This club was REALLY dead, the DJ's didn't even show up it was so dead.) I was about to ask her about her tattoo, this chick had a fuckin STORY written on her arm... I couldn't believe it. She says she's going to go dance just as I'm about to ask. Her friends and her go dance.

I go outside to have another smoke and the two girls are there minus the sexy one. We chat for a bit, I learn they're out to get guys to buy them drinks. I give them a game plan and tell them good luck. They say they're heading to another club and one of them asks me to come as she's holding my hand. I decline while caressing her face because I realized the sexy one was inside all alone now.

When I go back I approach the sexy girl and put my arm around her back, Razorjack style. I tell her about my conversation with her friends, we BS a bit about scamming people for drinks... it seemed like the sexual tension was high, and she was touching me back. Trying to create a little flirtatious banter, I tell her my mom warned me about girls like her. She tells me my mom was a girl like her. I laugh and tell her she's never met my mother. Then she says she's my father... I told her all this time I thought she just had a banana in her pants. She said she does and asks if I wanted her to peel it so I could see. At this point I was thinking I should have felt her crotch playfully or something but decided against it. She goes to look at the DJ for a bit and I catch up with her later when she's sitting down. I put my arm around her back and we're chatting when a dude comes up. She introduces us and says she's going to be dating him soon.

At this point I was turned off of her but I decided to stick around and chat because there was nothing better to do.

With this girl I was happy with how I was confident in the approach and touched her from the beginning. I was also pretty happy with the banter we had going on. What I think I could have improved on was getting compliance after the opener by telling her I liked her attitude and asked her to join me in a dark corner where we could talk.

Compliance is something I really need to work on, it's something new to me and am curious how other people use it in the early stages of an interaction.

xmlenigma · #2 03-19-2007, 03:27 PM

What makes you think you did not have compliance?

You were not escalating the compliance or leading enough.. but you had compliance.

You are thinking of it LOGICALLY. Her BANTER with you was very flirtatious and sexual. She liked your boldness, your confidence and your being social with her friends. YOU WERE IN!

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I tell her my mom warned me about girls like her.

Good flirtatious female banter.

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She tells me my mom was a girl like her.

That was an AMAZING comeback.. It shows spontaneity, SitRel & Social Intelligence..

You should've rewarded / complimented her for this...

So you're gonna be like my mom and pamper me.. a lot

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I laugh and tell her she's never met my mother.

You started taking the playful banter LOGICALLY... and OBJECTIVELY in terms of your Mom & Dad. She doesn't know THEM or YOU.. she's just talking abstract hypothetical bullshit.. Roll with it.. Don't get all logical about the CONTENT of the conversation..

Get a feel of HER MINDSET.. which was let's tease each other UNTIL we can please each other..

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Then she says she's my father... I told her all this time I thought she just had a banana in her pants.

Definitely not the kind of direction I would want to take it..

I'd be like.. "Nice.. papi.. I like the fact that you are into role reversal.. we can start by you calling me papi.. and me calling you mami.. and switch back and forth.. I like the way you think.. it's sexy".

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She said she does and asks if I wanted her to peel it so I could see.

I love this girl.. She is an IMPROV genius

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Hmm.. I don't know about peeling it.. let's start feeling it.. [Verbal]
[Physical](pull her close in front of you, look dominantly into her eyes.. and start dancing / grinding.. smelling her neck.. - sexually toned physical escalation ..slightly playful as well..do one or more of the above for a bit.. and pull back.. if she wants it more.. you'll know to take it faster.. if not continue at existing pace.. Calibrate based on how much she can handle.. from my guess.. she could take it all)

Freedom 35 · #3 03-20-2007, 03:34 PM

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