FR: Colege Daygame

[mavart]

hey all,

For the past week i along with a friend have been doing approaches with direct openers.

In all we have talked to nearly 20 women and up to this point i had never been rejected by so many women in my life

Anyway here is a FR that went down today

1st approach: I used a direct opener in a girl who's moving towards me at a very fast pace. She smiles, but she's in a hurry so i let her go

2nd approach: I used a direct opener on a girl whos' walking towards the commericla district, however she says i'm waiting for my bf to pick me up, then i bust out by saying "that means we will have to see each other in secret". She cracks up, but i eject not knowing what to do after that point

3rd Approach: I see someone walking ahead of me so i say "excuse me" then the direct opener, she smiles but she has to go takea midterm

Last Approach : I see this cute girl walking towards me, i stop her and use my direct opener while looking directly into her eyes. She lights up and says thank uou. Unfortuntely shes going to a meetimg so i tell her lets take a walk then We are both walking and i'm trying to vibe with her and she seems realy receptive. We get to the meeting place and i tell her that its was great meeting her and i would love to do coffee with her sometime. She agrees and we exchange numbers

p.s i texted her saying it was fun meeting her and she texts me back "you too",

How should i proceed at this point, mind you i have never been on a real day 2 so i could use some help here.


Even though i am not at vince's and sebastians's level yet, lol, My goal is within the next six months i want to be able to date quality women on a regular basis. I am not looking to get into a mltr or anything like that yet. I want to have an ltr first so i can really learn about relationships in general.

[ITotem]

Text/call her in the next 2 days. Talk normally as if you were with a friend, build rapport. Don't rush to meet up again. If it feels right, you can ask to meet up with her at the end of the call... if not, you can do so on the next call. It'd be interesting to also see if she would bring that up first.

[Brian]

Great job on the approaches. Keep it up! Just getting those approaches in is impressive in itself. Remember to keep a journal of what worked and what didn't.

College campuses are strange...you'd think it'd be really easy, with all the young , horny, unemployed girls wondering around, but I've experienced some challenges on my campus too. Couple things to consider:

1. You're actually doing "street game" if you are talking to women who are walking around/in motion. This is different than day game, which is like bookstores, malls, etc. Street game is fast so it's hard to be situational. Also, women are not ready mentally to deal with a conversation. It can be hit or miss, no matter how good you are. I recall doing street game with a really good PUA, and he was hit or miss, even though he is a very charming, spontaneous guy. I think the key is to be VERY confident, direct, but not intrusive or scary, and just take your chances.

2. There is a trend going on now called "That was random." Our culture has made up this whole "random" phenomenon where anything that is unexpected or out of the ordinary is "RANDOM," and has a very negative, awkward connotation. Younger women are very quick to see a situation as "random," and respond negatively. Kind of sucks, but we gotta deal with it.

Keep practicing - once you build some confidence and don't take the whole thing too seriously, women won't have room in their brain to think "that was random," because their focus will be totally on you

As far as where to go next Itotem gave good advice. For a date - meet her for hot chocolate/coffee, then take a walk, then bring up a movie you want to see and go rent it together. Or have her hang out with you and your friends before going out, don't drink to much, hang out at a party/bar, and invite her to chill afterwards.

Good luck!

Brian