FR: Weekend of Going Out

[FreeVerse]

Saturday:

Getting my dance game on, I've notice, most of game is not around the bar, but around the dance floor. To be honest Saturday was more like a warm up for me. I danced and grinded with so many girls I couldn't count. No number closes, that night was mainly for me to get comfortable dancing... and you know what. I am, I'm actually pretty confident, I know how to move my body well, and women respond VERY well. I actually wore out a couple of girls who couldn't hang. Tonight was mainly for fun but of course I wanted to pull women. No bullshitting, I could of gotten so many phone numbers there but I decided I wanted to pull some chicks even though logistics weren't right and I didn't plan it out. It was one of those "fuck it, I'm going out" type of moments and I had left it to chance really, my mistake. It was hard pulling girls when she was with a single friend, my wing and the chick he was dancing with got kicked out.

So what I learned was:

plan the logistics before hand so even if you decide to be spontaneous and go out like that. you'll be ready, it's about preparation. If it's prepared I have a route I can go to rather than floating around like a leaf in a draft.

Good thing though, I'm confident to dance with women.

Sunday:

I'm thinking to myself, what is it that I have to do to feel good about the night when it's all over. So I said I would do my best, go for windows and pull. May I remind you all, I haven't been doing the night game for that long.

I got a new mindset before I even walked into the place, and when I did my Game was on a whole new level. I was talking to everyone, guy and gals. I was getting conversations going with the bartenders, the guys sitting next to me and my buddies, and I was getting into a social mood.

Saw two chicks, one guy was talking to them and when he left without hesitation I approached them with a situational opener, we were all wearing black. I started cold reading both of them and I brought one of my partners into the conversation to talk to thickblonde while I talk to thinblonde. I was focused on the TV while talking to her but I sensed it pissed thinblonde, she then focused her Body Language somewhere else and I started talking to her again and followed up with the cold read. She become interested in the conversation, till she finally said "I just want to talk to my friend" I followed by "cool, check this out my friend is right there, I'm gonna go talk to him." I was very unaffected by her and left.

After a some drinks with the guys and some smokes outside I hit the dance floor. Everyone was paired up so I was mostly dancing by myself but I'm comfortable doing that and not self-conscious at all. It's called confidence. Girls was checking me out when I was dancing and I felt great about myself cause of my dancing. Fast Forward, me and a guy was taking care of these two girls... by grinding with them I started dancing with softtouch. They were of the very few who weren't with a guy there. Fast Forward, they where leaving and I had gently and firmly hooked my hand on her arm, i wanted my touch to comforting, respectable but I also wanted to stop her from leaving. She then placed her hand on my left side with an open palm which felt very comforting. There's actually a thread about this http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums/mai...-kinos-me.html
I get her number and name and I haven't decided yet when to call her, I'm pretty much hanged over from a weekend of partying till two in the morning.

What I liked about this was that I was dancing with a group of girls. Not just one but like three at a time and it felt great. There where even times when I was putting cracks on the floor solo and chicks would check me out. That's actually how it starts I'm dancing solo and then I start dancing with a group.

Before we leave the place I see tightclothes at the bar and start talking to her, said I really liked her outfit and kind of forgot how the conversation started rolling. All I remember was that when she said that she was X I was like "yeah, X'es are very nurturing, I like that." Then I went into logistics for a brief moment an started talking about when I go out and where then I said "we should hang out" and got her number.

The place was closing so I we ended the night at another function. Cover charge was 40 but since the night was winding down me and my friend got in for free. Our other friends had left already.

Well, I hit dance floor and start dancing, but after creating conversation with the bouncers at the doors. So I'm doing my thing and eyesonFreeVerse sees me and she's giving me the "look" so it's on and I started dancing with her. Lots of close dancing and rubbing, she had her hands all over me, I think I wore her out cause after the song finished she went straight to the couch and sat with a dude. Danced with a group, then fast forward, I knew that I could pull her, but she ended up dancing with another guy who she left with. Oh well.

Right now, I'm still pretty tired, that stuff does something to your health and wallet. Makes me appreciate Day Game even more. I'll probably give softtouch a call once I recovered from this weekend. I mean the alcohol and smoking and the going out started before the weekend, and didn't end after the weekend. Time to rest.

What I learned :

A Mindset. "What will I have to do/be in order to look back at this night and be happy about it?"

I'm confident in my dancing.

Partying takes a toll on your health and wallet. Time for some Day Game.

[authenticallyme]

why does it appear its about what physically transpired? why are women called by names like tightdress and fitblonde?

i feel demeaned as a female when i read this stuff, not that anybody cares.

you still looked good in the blazer....i just speak the truth.

[FreeVerse]

I called some by as they appear, I was talking to that blonde for a god 5-10 mins and that's all she showed me, that she lacks personality, so that's all I called her, on the other hand I named one them softtouch because she has a soft touch to her and I liked that about her, besides I don't want to put their real names.

Thanks dear, i really like that blazer, I like how you have a voice.