Hard target

[craig]

ok. Im standing waiting for a target. Im casual relaxed . I look over my shoulder and she is approaching behind to the left walking up 30 ft away.. as she gets closer i turn more and start to move toward her she is looking straight ahead not acknowledging anybody or anything. shes trying to avoid anyone .She is not going to look at me I know this. I approach.. she is the hardest of targets for me..she trys to ignore my opener.. i walk along side her she is going to find a way to get away if she can. I ask a few questions.. she doesnt give much answers. I keep walking. I know she will talk to me in a different situation but im hitting the deadspot because isnt contributing. she barly looks at me..Im still pretty relaxed because i know whats going on but i dont know how to make her feel comfortable to talk to me. she looks for a way to get out from the obligation to talk to me.. She walks toward her friends who greet her and she easily engages them.. they all keep moving andim in no mans land..

.How do I break through.. how do I get past the deadspot even when i do break through the shield?


How do I keep feeling of sponteniety because really i am activley looking for a target its not spontaneous?
How do you demonstrate it?
I spend alot of energy on hard targets trying to approach get in position to talk or catch them and engage in a converstion.. then I find that we hit that dead spot in the conversation and everything can end just as quikly.. how do you move forward or get around this?