Day 2 with HBBradenton + Day 2 with HBJAP

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Night of 3/22/08


Day 2 with HBBradenton


HBBradenton calls me and asks about that club I was talking about [the Orpheum]. I tell her it should be going off and we should go check it out. She says she’ll see if she can find a babysitter [she’s got 2 kids I found out] and let me know. I tell her to ‘make it happen’. Sure nuf a few minutes later she shoots me a text saying she’ll call me on her way up.


She calls me and I’m at my [now former, see Day2 with HBJap to see why] wing’s house. I give her directions to there.

She meets me there and we’re hangin out, shootin the shit. HBJap calls while we’re chillin so I turn off the ringer. Wing calls me upstairs for a moment to tell me that ‘she’s lame’ [meaning HBBradenton] and passes me the phone. It’s HBJap. I tell her I didn’t want to be an asshole by picking up the phone in front of my date. She says that’s cool and we should chill. I tell her I’ve got plans for the evening but we should hang out later/another day. I completely disregard my wing’s comment and shelf it under ‘jealousy’, so a few minutes later I tell her we’re going, and we get out of there.

We head to my house so I can change, and I kiss her there, then dip out.

We go to Reservoir Bar first and grab drinks there, and play the touch screen thing there. All the while btw I’ve got strong/’dominant’/overt kino interspersed with plenty of incidental kino, worked like a charm. Basically I was leading her through crowds with her holding my hand, or I had my hand on the small of her back. BTW, I noticed it worked better to have her hold my hand and let me just blaze thru the crowds.

After there we were walking towards The Orpheum, and I notice a couple behind me. I turn to look at them and see this brunette hipster cutie beaming at me. I’m calling her HB Hipster. I say what’s up and we chat for a bit. They say they’re going to New World so I tell HBBradenton we should go for a beer.

We’re there checking it out; theres a band playing. I’m trying to figure out a way I can discreetly slip HBHipster my cell phone #, or get hers [in this case I wanted to just give her mine, I have a feeling should would have called me for sure].. I’m not seeing a way. HBBradenton is all over me and there weren’t enough people in the bar to use a crowd or a mini-crowd as a visual shield if that makes sense. We have a couple beers and leave.

We stop at 3 Coins Diner [awesome, awesome place] and have food there. Here I think I fucked up cuz this wasn’t necessary. I already had mad comfort built. I should’ve just gone home and sealed the deal. But yeah, she’s got her leg parallel to mine and I’ve got my hand up her pant leg kinoing her calf and the back of her knee. We chat in this position for most of the time unless I’m leaning back, we eat and head on home.


At home I pick her up and throw her on my bed. We’re making out on my bed and getting heavy on the kino and she stops me. She says she’s got to get back to her kids to get their easter shit ready. I tell her she’ll get it squared away and resume. She stops me once I get my hand in her pants and other hand on her tit and says she really has to go. I’m like “whatever, not gonna BEG for it” in my head and outwardly I try to be as “understanding’ as possible. She says “Really, I want to wait. We’ve only met each other once before this.” I must’ve lost a bit of self-control cuz a couple minutes later she asks “Are you mad at me?” and I say “No” and she says “Your demeanor’s changed. Please don’t be mad at me, I really want to [fuck], but it’d be so much better if we waited. I have to get back to my kids too cuz they’re going to be wondering why the Easter bunny hasn’t come yet.’
I say no I’m not mad, see ya later and wave her goodbye.


She calls me the next day as I’m thinking about her [I know why she wants to wait... sneaky sneaky…] and we chat for a bit, and I let her go.

She called me again yesterday to set up something for today, but she couldn’t find a babysitter. What’s going to be great about banging this broad is that she knows what the score is. I feel that if I would’ve fucked her on Day 2, I would definitely be down to fuck her again, but with much less emotionally invested on my part. I’ve been thinking about her non-stop! Or I should say, thinking about fucking her non-stop wink

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Night of 3/23/08

Day 2 with HBJap


First I will post the text convo:

HBJap: I have a hotel room to my self tonite if you feel like coming by I might have some people

Me: Sounds good. I’m goin to a concert, maybe I’ll be able to stop by after

HBJap: Cool. Have fun at the concert. Hope to see ya 

Me (30 minutes later): How’d u find a hotel during spring break anyways?

Her: I paid for it. It was not full


Blah blah blah…

Anyways I found out from her where the hotel was (about 7 minutes away from my house). I went to the show, had a blast there, and went home to change, grab my bottle of Patron and headed over there.


I get there and she greets me with a big hug and a kiss on the cheek. We’re shootin the shit for a while, I’ve got her on my lap and I go to give her a kiss, then she proceeds to give me a speech on how she’s ‘sort of a prude and doesn’t really hook up with guys the first time meeting them’. I’m not buying it and mention something about ‘you can’t really put a timeline on sex, if it’s going to happen it’s going to happen’

She plants a kiss on me later when I’ve got my arm around her. She also showed me her tits at some point.

I’m on her bed waiting for her to chill out and relax so I can fuck her.. she brings up how my ex-wing called her, asked what she was doing, and when she said I was coming over he told her that I was “going to use all sorts of [pickup] lines on her and that I was going to force myself on her. She said he went from telling her to hook up/hang out with me to talking shit about me. Then she proceeded to talk to incessant shit about him til I was like “Ok, let’s not talk about this. Lets talk about something else.”

I got her talking about rough sex and lost the frame .. she started bitching about her parents and this and that… fuckin a this bitch could complain. Then she said she had to be out of the hotel by 11 and had no place to stay til her girl got off work to pick her up. I knew I should’ve left after she wouldn’t kiss me. As soon as she said that I felt like she was using me.

She asked me if she could stay at my house, and I told her not while I wasn’t there. I had grand plans of going to work but little did I know that all the partying Id been doing was about to catch up.. pronto..

She gets pissed, like really pissed, then starts bitching more.. “Why can’t you just pay for something for a girl. Do you ever just pay for something for a girl?” and I was like “If it’s a girl I’m having sex with, yeah I don’t mind paying for something here and there. But if it’s a girl I haven’t had sex with, I’m sort of a prude when it comes to spending money on a chick I barely know”

She got really pissed here and went on some fucked up chick logic feminist tirade “But you’re the guy” and then she was like “I need to go to sleep cuz I don’t know wtf I’m going to do”

I blew it somehow. but decided to cut my losses. I get the fuck out of there, and puke at the gas station I bought cigarettes at. I puked again at home and called into work.

I call HBJap, no answer. I text her : “You gonna keep being stubborn or are you going to answer your phone?

She called and texted back about 8 times but I was sleeping 

Long story short, my wing stabbed me in the back, but it was my fault for not identifying the nature of the broad I was dealing with. I think she would've responded much more to sexual tension. I got my ass handed to me when it came to controlling the frame, but then again I’ve NEVER dealt with a broad like this. Like hot but really testy. I guess being more dominant and showing more of a willingness to walk from the get go would dilute or completely diffuse any shit testing. I’ll have to re-read this report a few times but I’ll figure it out. I'll edit if anything pops up.



Basically, goal of the night was to fuck this chick

My goal was progressing slowly but surely at first, but when I kissed her is when the shit tests started popping up.

What I should do differently is inject more sexual tension into the interaction, and show more of a willingness to walk. Also, a venue change would've done wonders cuz we stayed there partying the whole night.

I think I may've lost the lay when I let her keep bitching. Instead of changing topics and telling her I didn't want to talk about that shit I should've just said "Look, if you're going to negative and just complain about how everything sucks, I'm outta here"

I could've taken the set further maybe by sticking it out, or by escalating on her more even after she told me what my ex-wing had said.


I met this chick a while back at my old wing's house. They were dating at the time. I'd say July-August of last year.

I personally went there with the intention of banging her. I brought my camera with just in case. She might've wanted to get me to pay for the hotel, but I didn't offer and she didn't ask.


Now that I'm thinking about it, my tone could've been off. I wasn't sober, so maybe when I responded there was a hint of stress/argumentation in my voice. Or maybe she was trying to work me like a 'john'.

I don't know her to be a hooker.

I should've continued pushing forward.

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