FR: Random Party

[Dominance]

Just got home from the clubs.. this is a bit long for one post so I will seperate them..

Part 1 of last night.. Random party..

So.. when I had just left home.. there was these few hot girls on the road waving.. so I pulled over and they come over and said "are you going to the party?.. can you drive us?" I said "hmm ok".. when they were in the car they were really happy "oh Ben your so hot and all this".. and then when I dropped them off they were just like 'cya'.. I could see the manipulation, but I went along with it because of one thing.. the party they were going to would have many more hot girls.. I then went to my friends who was coming to the club with me if he wanted to go, he was nearly asleep so said 'no'.

I went to the supermarket for redbull and seen this girl who works there on a break who ive flirted with.. and sat down with her and talked.. I asked if she was sending rude messages.. she said 'yeah I havent got any for a while so I have to take what I can get" dunno if she was serious or not.. I didn't say much to that, didn't know how I should of reacted, but I did make a mental note.. I talked for a few minutes and just got out my phone and gave it to her.. she put her number in without question.. then she had to go back to work..

So after that I went to the party, nobody questioned my presence..

Everybody was younger than me, since it was an 18th.. but around 18-22 (Im 22) is the age is my preference at the moment.. anyway I went around and talked to a few people.. I find more that I am starting to talk to guys and making friends which is something I wanted to work on.. and on the other side it seems to be helping when I talk to girls because they can see im social.

It wasn't happening here I opened a few girls, but nothing to report.. there was a fight after not long and it stopped I could tell it was gonna start again (Security Experience) and it started again in the big shed where everyone was dancing and got broken up and the lights turned on and everyone told to leave.. but then they got the offenders out and let other people stay..

After that I approached 2 girls "why did you girls start a fight?" and their like "hehehehe we wouldn't do that".. and I said 'wheres the music, we should start it again" and one said "yeah lets go in and turn it on" and she come with me and left her friend, we walked in and got confused by the fancy dj equipment, I talked to her a bit, then danced with her when they turned the music back on and after a bit she said "Im going to talk to my friend" and I said "talk to you later then" when I should of probably walked with her because I didn't see her again later..

Then this other girl who was all over me earlier who was like "oh I know you".. I went up to her and she put her arms around me hugged me and stuff, I thought 'here we go" then she goes "have you met my boyfriend and took me to meet him with her arm around me".. I talked to the group a few minutes and moved on..

It just wasn't sticking here.. and I realized another thing I have to solve.. im having problems approaching groups, of girls especially.. and have been looking too much for one girl by herself who seems open.. I have to approach more groups.. it seems pretty intimidating at the moment..

Anyway I decided I would move venue and go and see another friend who was out at the clubs..

When I left out the front there was a whole lot of older people (the family of the birthday boy I guess) standing in front of the gate and the idiots who were fighting earlier were arguing trying to get back into the party..

Questions for myself and others..
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1) I thought of saying to the girls "what do I get from this" when they asked for a lift.. but didn't beacuse I realized I had found a party, should I have asked them to make some kind of effort first?
2) When the girl at the supermarket said "I haven't got any for a while" should I have talked to her about sex or just make a mental note as I did and decide to give her some myself


-Ben