I'm going to tell you all that hapen this night

[chileno]

Hello, hero it goes, have in mind that I'm a beginner.

Today I go to "huevo(egg)".. lots of girls, the place was amazing.

When I enter I see 5 woman and one man from USA, I go to talk with the hottest girl, I said "hola" and I kiss her I tell her my name and she tell me hers(she seems a little sorprise but seems a little interested), we go to dance a little but she don't have much interest, thats weird because when I touch her to tell her something she touch me back really overt. So I eject.

Me and my friend whent to other floor, see 2 woman sit and I go "can we sit with you?", she said yes and we sit, we talk, I feel bold and in the moment, I invited them to dance, and we go, when I touch this girl she seemed open and touch me back, but I can feel that if I tried to kiss her she would said no, so I eject.... again.

I see a beutiful woman(she was a dancer) and tell her that maybe I mett her, that I have see her in some place, but I dont know where, I talk a little but she was dancing with a friend and was really hard, so I eject.

Then I go for another round(the second and last, I tried not to drink much) alone, and there was 2 girls really hot, I approach and they really enjoy my company. I started to talk about a tresome that I got about 2 years ago after 3 min of talk and they enjoy every min. I hug the two of them, all the time and they respond back. I talk about zodiac, college and whatever that cross my mind. Then we go to dance and I was with hers hand in my hands(I don't how to sais) all the time, I dance with the 2 like 8 min, and I know that if I try to kiss at least one, she respond me back. Then a friend of hers came and they start to lose attention to me, anyway, I got the number of the blonde one and I going to call her in the week, she got a boyfriend but I don't care. Then eject.

Then I approach other girl(hot), and she said that she can't dance with me because she was with a girlfriend, I said "give her a kiss" and she did so I eject.

Then I aproach a girl that have a friend and tell her " I want to meet you" really sexual overt body language, and I said to her " I know that you want to meet me", she said "yes, thats true but I can't leave along my friend, and scared a bit for my body language and you gees..... I eject.

After all this I was angry with myself, because I don't do anything good, not even a make out, nada. And I came home.

What can you said man?
What I did good or wrong?

Tomorow I'm going to go out again and do my best to fucking break my confort zone. I know that I can get a beatiful girlfriend(a 8 for sure) but I refuse to do that, I just want to play the game and be fucking free, have the choice that I want.

[chileno]

Today I go alone because all my friends was tired or got others "compromisos", so whatever.

In the bus I start talking with 3 girls that went to the same party that I, so have 19 years old and the one a was siting seem interested. I said something cocky and funny and one of her friend said "he is bad", and when I get out of the bus we split.

I talk with 4 girls that where siting each others I said "Hey, I'm waitnig for someone, can I sit down", I start talking with the girls ext to me, she lived in New York for 8 months, so we talk about that, and more like 20 min. Then I go for my first drink, and go to open others girls.

Then I talk with 3 girls from(US, the club have a party from foreign people so, there was a lot of foreign girls), they seem really nice, especially one, Barbara, really good loking, I was talking like 15 min. but then came someone that they know and I eject.

After that I talk with 2 girls one from Italy and other from France(hot one) like 30 min, and then I want to keep open girls so I eject.

After that I start talking with the bar girl, she was really nice, about this party and her job, like 20min, then starting to get much more people so I eject.

After this, in the bar zone(when I was, a fucking great spot for talking with girls), I start talking with 2 Germany girls and I chileno that I found to help me withj them, I close number but not any more. I dance with her, talk about many thing, then eject... After that I get a message with her "where are you", I came to meet her again and was dancing with some asshole, so I left.

I said Hey to some friend of college that I see with his girlfriend, I talk with him like 2 min.

Then started to talk with a girl that is in my class, she is from Italy, I dance with her, tried to kiss her but she look not so interested, so I said " I see you" and she left home.

Then I said "Hi" to the group that I meet yesterday in the "Huevo", I get the number of the man, saying that we must meet with all his friends for a party the next weekend(he seem really nice) and I eject.

And maybe one or two another talk with some girl, but nothing really interesting.

Any Ideas about this?

[chileno]

Today(Saturday), here close to my appartment came the mayor of the city. I look and there was a hot babe, I starting to dresing but when I finish the act have finish, and there was this babe with another one, and I fucking pussy and don't go.

I call the girl that I meet in the "huevo"(the one that I talk about tresome), I talk for 3 min, I wanted that she have my number. After this she text me "It's nice to know about you, we should go out, kisses". I respond to that "let me know if you can meet me tomorow for walking in the beach(hope I write good), let me know early". Hope she call, I let you know.

This evening I don't whanna go out, I planed to but I'm to tired. Now I Know that all you have to do is practice, with that your game get's better.


Don't be fucking shy, post something I need help, about anything.

[chileno]

Hey.. like I said, I'm depresed, piss of, and down.

Today I'm walking in the sttret and sometimes girls wanna look at me and I just don't look at her, because I'm really piss with woman. What is wrong with them, why they don't want to be with me, maybe I know the answer, maybe I'm needy for affection, for sex, maybe they think that I want to be her boyfriend, I'm sold to fast,whatever... I hate me today.

I hope that this process is good for me. I read the attraction code and when Patrick feel this way he adjust the last big thing in his game "indiference", he is not going to be more needy. I hope this hapen to me, today I don't even want to keep eye contact with girls, not talking and nothing. And I don't know how much time is this going to stay, but I'm not interested in woman, I'm not going to focus in pick up, I'm just going to study and whatever more.

You know how I feel?

Is like I want to attract woman and then not do anything, so that way I can hurt woman in some way, because I feel like shit. I'm not a bad person, but I'm tired of this, so much money wasted in club's, so much money wasted in phone calls for nothing.

Is this hapen to you, got any idea?

[chileno]

Hey man I don't know what is worng with me....

Today I went to Huevo again, and all the girls just don't want to dance with me. The girls who was more receptive was when I was really agresor, one time two girls where holding hands, I grab one of the girls hands and said, "came here, don't go over there", she kind of gigles. Other when she was almouest kissing one guy, I kiss my hand and the put my hand in her mouth, I can tell she really like that(the guy don't even notice). Other girl seem like lost or looking for someone, I said " don't look more I'm right here, she said this is my girlfriend, to that I respond "I don't care, cool", when she was leaving with her she look me all the time. I approach like 10 girls in the night, but not even a make out. Once we sit with 3 woman (we where 3), and I talk with one of them, I can see she was enjoing the interaction, then they go and I don't want to go for number close because I'm tired of numbers.

Anyway, what is wrong wi9th me, any idea?

Please help me. Thanks.

[dt3ks]

hey man, I wasn't going to reply to this post since I'm totally new to this but I see no one else is either. I don't know if you got the attraction code but one of the characteristics of an attractive man is knowing that you right now IS good enough. So all I'm saying you shouldn't be so down on yourself. Plus it's a bad focus. Just look back on your experiences and try to learn from them. I'd also like to add that just the fact that you are going out and approaching is a big thing for a lot of guys. I think you're doing great man! Keep it up and learn from your mistakes and you'll be a pimp in no time.

[JerZ]

Yeah you're doing a lot better than I was before I started the bootcamp. It looks like you're on the right track, however I do see that you're fixated on the outcome. You shouldn't really think about whether or not you'll get a kiss/full close. Have a curious and appreciative mindset when it comes to talking to them. I also see that you have no problem saying whatever you want, and that's great, but don't react when they say something back that you don't like. If you want to get with a girl, you have to get her to trust you first so she knows you're not going to only use her for sex and make her look like a slut in front of her friends.

Anyway, that's just my two cents. I'm not an expert or anything, but you asked for my opinion so here it is.

[chileno]

Thanks a lot the 2 of you, but I feel like crap. Whatever, nice words man.