LR:"listen to what the kid has to say"

[raki™]

This one has been a long time in the making. Seriously, dropped her from the Rakinishu’s Attack Kittens roster a while back (this is a joke with a friend, he has his PAC's Angels.. so i have the Attack Kittens.. lol.. im not serious about this though), met her back in October and in the months between now and then, we’ve met quite a few times and all in all of our encounters logistics has been my worst enemy, she seemed to know how to put logistics problems in the way but I had a serious shot one time but failed it again due to logistics again (progressive isolation and ended up in the most crowded place one could find, hours of mood setting and pumping BT went up in smoke) and that was the last time I saw her before my http://www.vindicarlo.com/forums/fie...itis-road.html post a few days ago. I saw her again yesterday and here’s the story.

Went to the mall looking for a pair of shoes and a pair of jeans. She’s textin’ me sometimes I bother to reply, sometimes I don’t. After the FR+ in my balcony, she seemed to be more into me, I knew she was, but this time she took it up a notch. She’s a constant shit test, stuff like “You got a lot of other women, you don’t need me”, “You make me mad!”, “I don’t trust you” and stuff like that, this is because she knows I ‘meet’ a lot of women (not entirely true but, that’s what she thinks). She’s very childish too. Only been with 2 men at 21.

I received a message from her like asking how was I, how about my fever (I got a bit of temperature the other day), asking where I was, what was I doing, How was my day, how was it at work. Etc.

And later jokingly asked “Do you want me to come over?”

So I said “Yeah, come over and checkout the jeans I bought, tell me if they’re a good fit”. And she told me she was kidding, that she has to go to Church in the late afternoon. Told her “Funny. I won’t let you to come over, ever again”. This seemed to knock some sense into her. She said she really wanted to go but she doesn’t know how to get to my place. Told her to wear something cute and comfortable and not too flashy we’re not going anywhere just hangout at my place, take a cab and gave her directions. I later ended picking her up somewhere close to where she lives, a 10 minute drive from where I rent my place. So it’s not too much hassle.

When we got to my place, got ourselves potato chips and beer, propped ourselves on the sofa on my balcony. I went down to the nearest store to get myself a pack of cigarettes and when I got back, I found her talking to my landlady’s 6 year old kid.

HB: “Hey, listen to what the kid has to say.. he said I am the most beautiful girl you brought here, all the rest were ugly.. haha!”
Raki: “Yeah, that’s what I told him to say each time”

[raki™]

The kid stayed put while HB was writing down songs she wants burned on a CD, and we were also arguing what the kid’s name was.. I simply call him ‘kid’. But HB asked him what his name was and it sounded like “Ladin” (maybe Alladin?). I asked him to write it down and when he did, he wrote it like his eyes were inverted, you need a mirror to read what he wrote. It was “Franklin” missing the “L” and he came back to me saying It was wrong that it’s missing the “L” and he added the “L” and it ended up like “Franlkin” (hard to read as it was inverted, weird kid). “Okay Franlkin, copy this (I wrote down ‘Franklin’), fill this paper up, learn how to write properly, get back to me when you got this paper filled up with your name” and he went away.

I’m not going to go as far as saying that she is one of a kind. But she’s so uptight. She has hard time showing affection, she’s not what you would call sweet, and she’s not really into reciprocating ‘kino’. I don’t know. She doesn’t touch me, she just looks, and busies herself with her phone sending text messages, busying her self with writing down song titles. And I bust her for it, so at least we don’t get bored. And least we have sort of interaction. And she asks me if there is anything else I’m good at aside from teasing her shitless and making her mad. I told her that I’ll take what I can. That’s the only way I get reaction from her anyways, I told her.

But what I realized was she might not be very showy but she welcomes my touch and kisses. I would have normally just dropped it and got drunk if the girl’s as dead as a door, but I saw that’s just the way she is and it was my job to be versatile and adapt to her and lead. So that’s what I did. Hug her from behind. Hold her hand, play Tic-Tac-Toe with her. Taught her how to say “Please” when asking for favor. Looked at a tech magazine and we each go “I like this one” then goes into stories page after page.

And she started to really stop bickering when I became serious and talked about serious matters. Like job (It’s boring topic but not when I do the talking). Previous girlfriends, relationship expectations, stories when I was a kid. And this is where she started opening up. She said she likes me more that way. (I think storytelling really is one of my strengths, it’s not really the story telling that get’s them but my opinions and perspective) So I made her a deal, I’ll stop busting her and she shows a little more love (hehe).

We started kissing, kino+, I went for the boobies again, it got dark by the way on my balcony it was around 6pm. And at this point, I realized, doing it there was an issue for her. Unlike the others I pulled there who had no problem making out on my balcony. So I moved her to my room, told her to lie on the bed with me while I rest. And when she did, we started making out again. Removed her bra.. and my “Do you know how to give head?” line worked again.. she didn’t want to do it at first.. but she did eventually, I knew there was gonna be an LMR , but I noticed that from being so reluctant she got the hang of it and I felt like liking it by the minute. So I just let her give me head until she got tired of it, and I was thinking she would welcome the change when I move for the lay.

There was a bit of LMR, but again, a non-issue.

But what I really don’t understand is after we did it, I took a shower and I moved back to the sofa and she was just looking at me.. keeping eye contact for minutes long.. and I kept on asking her what’s wrong, if she was mad at me or something, but she didn’t say a thing. It seemed to me like she’s waiting for something for me to say (I hope she' not waiting for ILY). She does kiss me still, holds my hand interlocked, but, I really got confused.. She was really sending mixed signals, and I gave up trying to figure her out.

..i flagged a cab and took her home.

[Brian]

LOL...jeez Raki, you fuck EVERYBODY. Love it. Keep em comin

[Vin DiCarlo]

Yeah this guy does fuck everybody - dude no one is safe - he makes me fear for my future wife and children, but you know what - I've kinda just accepted it as a fact of life.... "Yeah, well, Raki's gonna have to fuck them eventually"


Vin

[raki™]

..hehe. err .. thanks..

..she does occassional modelling. Great bod..ü

..i don't go with rating girls with decimal. I go binary. Fuck and Don't Fuck. And what really changed this is watching a movie really, Depp's Don Juan deMarco, when he said the lines "Hips too wide, breasts too small" and he goes on saying that there is something else about women that he can appreciate. That's why I really dig MVE. If she's a 0 (1&0), help her raise her value, and she might just be able to flip my 'Fuck/NoFuck Switch'..

But kidding aside I started to look for other qualities in them that I can genuinely admire, and learned to do the same even on the hottest ones. ("Is she really hot? Let me find out"..)

[Mr. Mojo]

Great report, I like how you handled her tests. Made me laugh my ass off.
I guess she wanted you to tell her that this was more than a lay, you know like you want a relationship. She kind of sounds like that type of woman.