LR: White J-Lo

[Brian]

Situation: Walking down the local strip to the bar with two buddies, around 11pm. See the most amazing, curvy hips swinging towards me. She has dark brown hair, big Punky Brewster eyes, perfect milky smooth skin, AMAZING ass and hips. Like better than J-Lo. A breathtakingly beautiful girl.

Opener: I was on the phone with my friend. When the girl got about 5-10 feet away I said “Hey man let me call you back,” flipped my phone closed, and put out my hand for her to stop. “Whoa. I am not letting you walk by without meeting you.”

Her reaction/my response: She liked it. She was with her friend, and they both stopped. I think I just introduced myself and shifted to normal small talk, while keeping a fun, playful vibe.

Convo: I talked to her while the friend stood off to the side. Kept it simple, small talk – school, work, where we are from, what she’s up to tonight, etc…the content was boring, but the vibe was very fun and relaxed. I teased her for looking super cool with a cigarette, and said she’d look perfect in one of those old black and white detective movies. After a few minutes, it was clear that we could have a normal conversation with each other. (That’s really 50% of PU – being able to have relaxed fun conversations with people you just met. As unspectacular as that sounds, it’s actually very different from what women are used to with guys.)

Logistics: “I like talking to you. We are gonna continue this later.” Hand her my phone and tell her to call herself.

Phone: Over the next week we had a couple fun, brief phone conversations, weekend goes by, and then I called her Sunday or Monday. Tell her I’m going to an 18 and up bar on Wednesday, which means she is allowed to hang out with the big kids (she’s 20). She laughs and agrees.

Hanging out: I decide I don’t feel like going out, so I call her to “cancel.” Then as a “second thought” I say, hey let’s do something low-key. We’ll go get ice cream like dorky high school kids. She says that sounds like fun. I tell her to call me when she’s near my house.

We go get ice cream, have a blast together just talking and relaxing. From talking to girls, one way they gauge comfort is the ability to have comfortable silences with someone. I’ve heard this from at least 6 or 7 girls. I do this a lot now, especially the first time hanging out – I’ll allow lots of comfortable silence by being comfortable with it myself. Forcing conversation undermines the natural connection that exists between men and women.

I find out that she does a lot of modeling, and is very into fashion and photography. I don’t ‘neg’ this or try to downplay it. I encourage her self-identity from authority. In the old days, I would’ve been intimidated by this and tried to downplay modeling or said “physical beauty is common” or something. Instead I told her that I found that interesting, because she has a very unique, classic beauty to her, like those actresses from the silver screen. This was kind of a callback thing from my joke about her looking like a diva from a detective movie, and led to a conversation about movies. I told her I like rediscovering old cult and foreign films that people don’t know about. She liked that, and I suggested we go find one and watch it together. (I use words like “together,” “us,” “we,” a lot. I kind of assume that we are a team, and this creates a strong emotional connection really fast.) We goof around in the movie store, pick out an old Italian movie, and go to my place.

Sexy Time: We cuddle up on the couch, and start making out after about 15 minutes. I get to fingering her deep spot, which is driving her crazy, and after a couple minutes, take her upstairs to the bedroom. I take all her clothes off, and strip myself, and just let her lay there naked, running my fingers over her skin. We are talking a little, playing around with each other’s bodies…it’s really relaxed and playful, which allows a strong physical connection to flourish before we even have sex. I get on top of her and kiss her and begin manhandling her body. I throw the rubber on and give her what she needs.

Later she told me that no guy had ever treated her like I did or made her feel like I did, and that she had NEVER slept with a guy that fast. I hear that a lot, and I don’t know if I believe it. In the past that would’ve boosted my ego, but now it doesn’t really matter to me what other guys do or what girls think.

My job isn’t to impress her, but to help her get what she needs.


Water

[Scribe]

You know why this was a quality LR?

It's simplicity two thousand. No drowning the reader in a bunch of technique and phrases and Negs and Screening technique or DHV whatever.

You make it sound easy, and this makes me more confident, not confused at all the stuff I "need" to learn in order to do what you did.

I love you man, and so does white J-lo.

Love,
JC

[FreeVerse]

Hey, I really like this post. I'm not at that level... YET... but your post will help boost me to that level... the whole thing about keeping silence, and being comfortable with it... I have this tendency to see it as a void and I have to put something in it (words.) Which leads me to speeding up the conversation and making it "un-natural." I have to work on that. Cool report.

[Chase]

Great stuff, IceWater.

It's always good to see simple, direct yet great game is still possible. No gimmicks whatsoever.

I had this girl over at my place last night and as soon as our clothes came off, I too just lay next to her, naked and caressing her body. I haven't done it alot but I'm going to in the future.

It truly creates a special connection and you show her you're not some frustrated guy who's been waiting all night to wave your dick in her face.