LR: Little Mexico

[Brian]

Situation:
Local club with some buddies. I see two Mexican girls laughing near the bar.

Opener:
“You guys are having too much fun without me.” Then I vacuum with a look of mock disapproval.

Response:
One is really attractive – beautiful face, small waist, great ass. The other one is chubby but more friendly. She says something friendly to me. I smile and say “cool” or whatever, and continue standing there and looking at them until they ask me my name.

Convo:
Playful banter ensues. The quiet one is a “disagree-er.” I tell her so and laugh at her. I then say, “I tell you what – I will say things, and it will be your job to disagree with me.” She agrees, which is hilarious because then I bust on her for failing at her job. I give her a kind of one-armed hug around her neck, like she’s a little brat, and whisper in her ear “you are a smartass…like me.” I’m very warm and loving with this, and it’s calibrated because it’s very loud in the club. She seems flattered and gets a smug look on her face. So I say, “but that’s only fun for a little while. I like it when people are real also.” Then my buddies come up and I turn my attention to them, since they are more important to me than two girls I’ve known for 10 mintues (HINT HINT).

Logistics:
My buddy knows of an after-party nearby. I notice that the two girls are near us, so I shout at them to come here and wave them over. I tell them we are going to a party. The chubby one asks, “is it a real party or are you just trying to get us to your place?” I look at her with a blank expression, and tell her honestly, “My friend knows of a party. I don’t know how it will be. Would you like me to give you guys a call?” So she starts to give me her number, and the cute one says “no take MY number!” So that’s that.

The party was lame, and I texted them something, but no response.

About a month later, I call the girl. She is happy to hear from me, and scolds me for waiting so long to call. I reassure her that the fact that I still remembered her after so long should make her feel special. I enjoyed meeting her, but I have been really busy. So we vibe for awhile, then she asks me if I have AIM, which I do, but rarely use. (AIM is great for girls who are flakey – I’ve used my cool internet pimping skills to get some very difficult girls to meet up.) So we flirt on there a couple times over the next week.

Day 2:
I stay off AIM for a few days, and then call her. I tell her I have some free time today, and we should hang out. She asks me if I’m going to watch the Pistons. I say of course, and she says that she is going to go to the bar later with her friend and I can come. So I tell her to write down directions to my house to pick me up.

Me, Little Mexico, and her friend (can’t remember if it was the same one from the club) go to a sports bar. We watch the game, and I try to stay in a good mood while the fat friend starts grilling me on my views on premarital sex and religion and whether I’ve dated any Mexican girls. I give very minimalistic answers, or outright ignore her, pretending to focus on the game. It’s apparent this girl was brought along for security/screening purposes.

Logistics didn’t allow for isolation after the game, so just stayed friendly, and got dropped off.

Day 3:
Call her a week later, and we vibe some more. I tell her I’d like to see her, but I’m allergic to bulldogs. She doesn’t get it. I respect her and would hope she respects me. She says respect is important to her. I already knew ‘respect’ is a big thing with Mexican chicks. So I screen her on her own values. I say that I’m interested in getting to know her, not in getting grilled by her friend. I tell her, “well since I like you, I want to give you a second chance. Let’s have dinner at your place.” We arrange for me to bring over some groceries and she makes tacos.

Sex:
After dinner, we crash on the couch and watch TV. She’s laying on me, and I start kissing her neck, putting my hands all over her – I’m very slow and dominant. I touch her like I own her and we have all the time in the world. I wait a long time to kiss her on the mouth – very dominant move. Going slow seems to speed things up because it turns women on so much. She kisses my stomach and gives me dome for a minute. Then I firmly grab a fistful of her hair and pull her up to her feet, look her in the eye (while holding her hair/head) and tell her I want to give it to her soo bad. I grab a condom with one hand while bending her over the couch with the other, and pound that fat Mexican ass.

Keys:
Complete indifference to approval. Focusing on making girls like me is utterly useless.

Draw out her inner character and reward it with kino.

Implicitly reframe everything she does, all her “maneuvers” as unnecessary attempts to win me over.

Respect and being ‘real’ were major themes here. I knew to do this because of past experiences with Mexican girls – there’s a big thing with them about respect, and guys being ‘real.’

Got her to cook for me and rewarded with cock.

[FreeVerse]

Wow! I sense the real dominant person you are. Even some things seemed almost borderline domineering... It's true, Mexican, Filipino, any Spanish influence culture have that thing about respect. I know what you mean.

[the_dicknotist]

Sweet LR. All hail the Mexichicas! It's interesting you contacted her a month later. I doubt I'd even remember her if I waited that long. Do you do that regularly?

[Canjay]

Yeah I second that question...

A month later? How come she doesn't feel as if you're just playing games?

I appreciate your skills from posts already, but man, to stay in a women's mind so if you call her a month later... I mean, I'm moving my timetable up to take the Drills workshop in that case

[Brian]

Yeah a month is not really a big deal. especially if you're follow up game is tight.

[diablo]

Convo:
Playful banter ensues. The quiet one is a “disagree-er.” I tell her so and laugh at her. I then say, “I tell you what – I will say things, and it will be your job to disagree with me.” She agrees, which is hilarious because then I bust on her for failing at her job. I give her a kind of one-armed hug around her neck, like she’s a little brat, and whisper in her ear “you are a smartass…like me.” I’m very warm and loving with this, and it’s calibrated because it’s very loud in the club. She seems flattered and gets a smug look on her face. So I say, “but that’s only fun for a little while. I like it when people are real also.”

Brian, your calibration is tight-
"the disagree-er."
you pointed her out QUICK
then COMPLETELY paced her reality-
"it will be your job to disagree with me"
PACE-PACE-PACE then LEAD. nice.

Sex:
After dinner, we crash on the couch and watch TV. She’s laying on me, and I start kissing her neck, putting my hands all over her – I’m very slow and dominant. I touch her like I own her and we have all the time in the world. I wait a long time to kiss her on the mouth – very dominant move.

you were kissing all over her
not kissing her lips yet...
damnit that's a crazy feeling!
when you both know that this is the appropriate time to kiss...
and she'll be TOTALLY ready for you to kiss her...
and then you intentionally pull away and she DOES NOT expect it.....
and she jumps UP (literally).
she's having a giggling fit.
mygod that makes you feel alive!

[rarebreed]

I'm learning a lot from you and the other guys on this forum. I know guys on other forums who are mental masturbators. Not here. Nope.