FR: Being Dominant

FreeVerse · #1 10-01-2007, 04:15 AM

Date: Sat, Sept 29 to Early Sun Sept. 30

Started Saturday at noon when I talked to a two set outside of Best Buy and Walmart. I noticed how comfortable I was and how I can hold a conversation well.

I said to myself that I can be comfortable and hold a conversation well.

Got more inner confidence.

Fast Forward to night hours. I was thinking about sarging by myself but decided to call some people. Went out with a co-worker.

I'm driving to the place where I'm going to meet my friend and I start thinking about negatives which I quickly stopped. Then I started thinking positively. Then I chose to stop that. I chose to not think negative and not think positive. I chose to be out of my head and in the moment.

I was ready when I called my co-worker so he still was getting ready. I'm in the parking lot and I decide to get into my Warm Dominance state. Thanks to acting classes I know that I can quickly get into that state and I do.

Met up with my friend and we went to the Dave and Busters and hanged out at the bar, The second time I've been at a bar. I feel comfortable and confident that I can PU in this venue. The time I was there I was really introducing PU to my friend.

It died out there and there was five guys for every one girl. We went to Borders Bookstore.

Bumped into a really pretty girl on my way to the magazine section. Thought she was really pretty. I later saw her in a section reading magazines next to a guy. Didn't know if they were together. Kept observing. Later I went in and guy and her are still there.

Opened her directly. I paced my words to the rhythm of my breathing which came from my diagphram. Started w/ small talk to get the ball rolling then steered it to more interesting conversation. I looked at her like she was about to say something and sure enough she did. She felt compelled to say something. She asked about me and I knew she's open to me now. Told her what I liked about her, and decided to stop it at there. Told her I'm going to go back to my friend and got her number.

Found my friend. He wanted to show me some Tony Robbins books which I guess right. So we went to that section which is near the girl I number closed. We start talking about Tony Robbins and a woman next to us opens us. We have a conversation and in my head I thinking "yeah, the girl I number closed will hear this." So we're having a conversation and this woman is putting down Tony Robbins which is the subject of our conversation that me and my friend are having. Underneath it all it can be seen that she's putting us down by putting down what we are talking about. I re-frame her perspective and go her to comply with the perspective I gave her and led her too thus I am leading the conversation and I AM THE DOMINANT ONE IN THE CONVERSATION. I'm changing her perspective, leading the conversation and I AM LEADING HER.

I look back at where the I number closed is at and it appears she re-positioned herself so she can be in my view.

I tell the woman who is now complied with a perspective I gave her and led her too that it was nice meeting her and I excused me and my friend.

Later... we're at Hooters. I really wanted a burger and I never been there before.

We walk in, the lady at the front says we can sit anywhere in the middle. Of course, I choose the table in the middle that's made for six and it's two of us. We sit back and it's obvious we now own the place. We had a very confident waitress. Since there were open seats next to us, she was able to sit with us. During the whole time I was there she complied with what I asked of her. She drew me pictures and such, I find out she loves playing the Piano, more on that later. I put a boundary on our conversation with her and she complied with it and during the whole time we talked, she made sure not to cross the boundary. I am the dominant one in the conversation and I am leading it. I also set a boundary with me and her. Back to her playing the Piano, at the end of the night I go into logistics and start talking about when I can hear her play the Piano, she says she hasn't played in a while but she is planning to make a CD and of course she offers it to me. We run through her day offs and what she does during the week. Didn't put much effort in a later meeting. I knew I'd see her again.

After that, I'm stuff on the big two tower burger and fries meal and we decided to end it there and I went home stuffed. I had a great time and a great night. My game has really improved.

I lead women. I am the DOMINANT ONE.