Being True to True Desires

[FreeVerse]

Truthfully speaking... I felt compelled to write something, not for me directly, but for my wanting to share with others so they may benefit. Well, most people know this already, and some probably wont care, and those who experienced through it know what I'm talking about and see why I would write something about it.

well, it all comes down to... Being true to your real desires. meaning going after what you feel compelled to go after. walk the path that you truthfully want to walk, etc.

When I hear it, write it, speak it, "be true to your real desires" or "go after what you really want." It sounds so simple, I mean they're just words, that I've heard in myself for so long, and yet it's so complex when it comes to really doing it.

It went from wanting to have sex with the women in the media to wanting to have sex all the time because of "pick up"

Went from wanting to have sex with the women in of car ads or dancing in Hip Hop videos to wanting to have sex with multiple women because, hey it's the thing to do, since we are all in "pick up." I'm speaking out of observation. Eventually underground becomes the new mainstream with all the Pick Up shows. Well, thinking about it, dating has always been mainstream, but ever since speed seduction with Ross Jeffries, it has evolved and is still evolving.

Not to say, that's what pick up is all about, have sex with multiple girls. I wanted to learn about all this attraction methods because I was smitten by a woman and I didn't know what to do. Then, I went another way. Walking around looking at women I didn't even desire and trying "game" on them. No spark. That's what is great about talking to a lot of women and "gaming" them, is that you figure out what you don't want and what you do want. That's a good thing. Eventually all the women your ego wants become something you don't want. There is abundance, and some it we don't want.

Theres post is turning into something else but back on track. I was de-synthesized and turning into this product or this machine that would go out, at every single chance that I can and work on my game. Going out a lot did help me with my vibe and going after what I truthfully want. As far as pick up lines and techniques, I don't even do those things anymore... because when you go for something you want, you come with an energy that will speak to women inside of them. So it took me a long time to snap myself out of that de-synthesize state and be Me again. Funny, we all hear of these situations that people have were they try to find who they are. Some look to material things like cars, mansions. Other's superficial things like Fame, Looks, Quantity of suitors. Though we might never fully understand who we are, I feel that the path to self-enlightenment or knowing who you are, lies in your true desires.

Thank you all for reading, yes this was written for me and my desire to want to share with you.

- L.T.L

[El Cuchillo]

Originally Posted by FreeVerse

I was de-synthesized and turning into this product or this machine that would go out, at every single chance that I can and work on my game.

I notice this with some of my indirect friends, or with people who just care about quantity. They end up not even knowing how to connect to women. It seems that you're really starting to be honest with yourself. You're realizing what your standards are and that you're not going to sleep with someone who doesn't meet those standards, just to fuck her.

Originally Posted by FreeVerse

Going out a lot did help me with my vibe and going after what I truthfully want. As far as pick up lines and techniques, I don't even do those things anymore...

Originally Posted by FreeVerse

because when you go for something you want, you come with an energy that will speak to women inside of them. So it took me a long time to snap myself out of that de-synthesize state and be Me again. Funny, we all hear of these situations that people have were they try to find who they are. Some look to material things like cars, mansions. Other's superficial things like Fame, Looks, Quantity of suitors. Though we might never fully understand who we are, I feel that the path to self-enlightenment or knowing who you are, lies in your true desires.

I've learned a lot through this PUA process. However, I realize now that it is not about learning new techniques and theories. Those techniques and theories are just a means to an end. They are just the path that brings you into state.

When you take a cab to the upper west side, you don't bring the cabbie with you into the restaurant. you let him go. So we can let all the theories and techniques go too.

it is really about stripping away what is not truely you. letting go of the ego, the false social conditioning, and the negative mental patterns that hold us back. Then our spirit can shine and we can really connect to people and be who we really are. It is a great contribution to women and to society in general.

[Brian]

This is dope FV

It got me thinking about a couple things. First, in this community, we focus on quantity and "hotness" because most guys coming into this have neither. As an instructor I have to meet my guys where they are at, so I teach a lot of stuff that is designed for fast lays with hot girls, period. Nothing beyond that.

In my personal life, I've experienced what you are going through, and for me, numbers aren't important, conventional "hot chicks" are irrelevant, and going out to "pick up," or approaching simply because "this is what I'm supposed to do as a PUA" is laughable now.

What I look for is my specific physical type, and true feminine energy. I don't look for anything more in a woman, and I will settle for nothing less. I don't expect women to complete my life, but I also won't allow her to be a liability to my time, energy, or resources.

Now I only approach and pursue women that genuinely pull my attention and desire. Which brings up my second thought.

Since I now only deal with women that I feel real attraction with, there's always a spark, and my flaking is almost non-existent. Things move very fast and smooth. And it's because I am GENUINELY INTERESTED.

Which brings up my second point:

No genuine desire = no spark, no connection (but maybe sex lol)

Guys want to know how to connect or build rapport. Step one is to actually have some sexual desire for the woman in front of you. If you don't feel specifically attracted to her, but just want to get laid, she can feel it. She may be OK with that because she just wants to get laid too. More likely, the woman will feel a lack of desire on your part, and she won't put herself out there to be penetrated (because you aren't penetrating).

Anyways, good stuff bro.

Over and out.

[FreeVerse]

Originally Posted by El Cuchillo

it is really about stripping away what is not truely you. letting go of the ego, the false social conditioning, and the negative mental patterns that hold us back. Then our spirit can shine and we can really connect to people and be who we really are. It is a great contribution to women and to society in general.

Yeah I've notice that, that is what's happening. It's like when they asked Michaelangelo how he made the statue of David. He said David was already there and that all he had to do was chip away.

[FreeVerse]

Originally Posted by Brian

This is dope FV

It got me thinking about a couple things. First, in this community, we focus on quantity and "hotness" because most guys coming into this have neither. As an instructor I have to meet my guys where they are at, so I teach a lot of stuff that is designed for fast lays with hot girls, period. Nothing beyond that.

In my personal life, I've experienced what you are going through, and for me, numbers aren't important, conventional "hot chicks" are irrelevant, and going out to "pick up," or approaching simply because "this is what I'm supposed to do as a PUA" is laughable now.

What I look for is my specific physical type, and true feminine energy. I don't look for anything more in a woman, and I will settle for nothing less. I don't expect women to complete my life, but I also won't allow her to be a liability to my time, energy, or resources.

Now I only approach and pursue women that genuinely pull my attention and desire. Which brings up my second thought.

Since I now only deal with women that I feel real attraction with, there's always a spark, and my flaking is almost non-existent. Things move very fast and smooth. And it's because I am GENUINELY INTERESTED.

Which brings up my second point:

No genuine desire = no spark, no connection (but maybe sex lol)

Guys want to know how to connect or build rapport. Step one is to actually have some sexual desire for the woman in front of you. If you don't feel specifically attracted to her, but just want to get laid, she can feel it. She may be OK with that because she just wants to get laid too. More likely, the woman will feel a lack of desire on your part, and she won't put herself out there to be penetrated (because you aren't penetrating).

Anyways, good stuff bro.

Over and out.

Yeah, I know you would be able to relate Brian. You know what I'm talking about.