Independence for you

FreeVerse · #1 11-27-2007, 06:47 AM

1. When you go out, don't go out to sarge, run game, pull, hunt, draw or whatever. Have a reason that's independent of that. Find a reason to go out for yourself FIRST or CREATE a reason.

"I'm going out because it's my day off."

"I want some fresh air."

"I want to see if they have my favorite Confunkshun album, because I love 80's Funk when music was good overall"

"because it's Monday."

2. When calling her. Watch your favorite TV show while calling her, or while you're walking to a certain place that you have to be at a certain time.

3. On a date, or when scheduling a date. Make it a habit of going out whether or not she accompanies you.

4. Think you first, then her. When you're out and you're having fun, you can transfer that to her.

5. Self Image and Self-Esteem - No bragging or trying to impress her. Whether you impress her or not, you'll still be the same person afterwards. Trying to impress others will not develop high self-esteem and self-image in the long run. Think, whether you pick her up or not, will that change the way you see yourself and how you think of yourself?

6. Being proud of yourself - Don't seek approval for who you are. You are who you are and you have every right to be. You created who you are.

7. Create a life that's independent of women, You're number one and so is your purpose in life.

THE VIBE IS NOT TO SHOW YOU'RE INDEPENDENT SO YOU CAN LOOK COOL. THAT'S NOT INDEPENDENT AT ALL. THE VIBE IS TO BE INDEPENDENT THAT YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST, AND THEN SECOND THOSE WHO YOU ARE WITH. YOU BECOME VERY GIVING.

WHAT'S YOUR THOUGHTS OF THOSE YOU ARE WITH WHEN YOU ARE INDEPENDENT? YOU THINK OF THEM AND HOW YOU CAN GIVE YOUR GIFTS TO THEM IF THEY SHOWED THEY DESERVE IT.

THESE AREN'T THINGS YOU THINK ABOUT, DO THEM AND INDEPENDENCE WILL BE DRILLED IN YOU.