everybody knows your secret

[bossyboots]

To change your beliefs about yourself, all your actions must be 100% congruent with that belief.

That includes your behaviour when you're by yourself.

Example: If you spend hours facebook stalking her, you're hurting your inner game. Information is a good thing. I'll often google a girl before a date and see what I can find out about her. I'm talking about looking at her pictures, daydreaming about her etc. Knock that shit off and you'll feel your power returning.

Zach

[Brian]

absolutely bro

(Btw I really appreciate the kind words in your report from SF. I know it wasnt' personal, but it still made me feel good.)

This angle on inner game is totally true - in fact, I'd say, this is most important. You're time alone is when you get sloppy and revert to old habits. One thing me and a former student and know close friend have come up with is this:

anytime you have a thought about getting better with women - what you should say in this situation, how you should dress, how you should open, what you should say to make her like you, etc...

Instantly follow this "approval seeking" thought with a new thought:

"what if I knew that girl wanted my cock? How would I be sitting right now? how would I be walking? how would I be driving? What facial expression would I have?"

Basically replace bullshit with as-if stuff as a habit, and new beliefs (which are simply deep mental habits) will form.

And Z, stop fucking everyone. leave some for me you White Devil