Crucial Questions

[Brian]

I just discovered that in fashion, what accentuates what is uniquely feminine is considered fashionable on a woman, for example, woman's jeans nowadays round out a woman's hips and butt. The same is true for men's clothing, for example, the classic blazer makes a man's shoulders wide and square, and his hips narrow.

What’s uniquely feminine in women is attractive (inherently valuable) to men. The same is true for men. What is uniquely masculine? How do you think, feel, and act differently than women? Women will complain and joke about “guys are all the same, it’s so annoying…guys do this, guys do that…blah blah blah.” That’s OK. They secretly love it. The guy who doesn’t buy her complaints, and takes his masculine nature to its fullest expression is the guy with a hot girlfriend.

Masculinity requires no refinement. A real man is inherently attractive to women. There is nothing wrong with you. What an absurd concept – that you are not perfect as you are. You’re here. That’s proof that you’re a genetic apex. So be you, and do it all the way.

Ask your self some questions (as I will when I finish writing this)...

What makes you different from women?

What is uniquely masculine about your body?

How do you think differently from a woman?

What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?

What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)

What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO)

[flow]

Nice excersice


What makes you different from women?

Really hard to tell. Its like the more I learn about myself and the more I learn about women the less difference there seems to be.
Women can give birth to children, I can't.
Women can have multiple orgasms in a way I can't (I thought so anyway until someone recently claimed men could learn that too)
There is a different balance of hormones in my body than in a woman's body. Maybe this affects the kind of life goals men and women have, I'm not sure about that though.


What is uniquely masculine about your body?

Everything!


How do you think differently from a woman?

I think a lot less about sex.


What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?

The feeling of FLOW is the one I like most. I also like the feeling of happiness when I've created something extraordinary beautiful. I'm addicted to the feeling of adrenaline when I'm about to throw myself out into the unknown. I find the feeling of intense sexual tension and connection of souls that can happen when I look into a woman's eyes totally intoxicating. And I get high on the feeling of love and power a woman can give me when she give up all control and let me give her an orgasm. I like the feeling of quiet peace I get sometimes when I wake up and its a very silent and beautiful day.


What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)

Everything! And the fact that it can have so many different types of orgasms, and several of them in a row.


What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO)

Intelligence, creativity, playfulness, and a drive to create stuff no-one else has done before. Oh, almost forgot, I want them to be dominant towards other people and sexually submissive to me, but maybe not all the time because that would be boring.


Interesting, the answers just came instantly and without hesitation. I usually think much longer when I do exercises like these.

/Flow

[bossyboots]

Originally Posted by Brian

What makes you different from women?
What is uniquely masculine about your body?
How do you think differently from a woman?
What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?

What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)

What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO)

What makes me different from women?
I'm more decisive, less impulsive, more self-reliant, more aggressive sexually, more assertive, more of a leader.

What is uniquely masculine about my body?
My cock. My arms are stronger. I am bigger than most women I date (though not all). I have bigger hands. I have hair on my chest and my legs. My thighs are more muscular (important for incidental vaginal stimulation), I smell different, I have a rough face, I have a deeper, more resonant, more penetrating voice than a woman does, I tend to store my fat in my love handles and my gut, not in my butt. There is less of a curve in my lower back.

How do I think differently from a woman?
I am more analytical than most women I know but also ready to take action when the time comes. I enjoy off colour jokes and political incorrectness. I am not offended by swearing. I feel the need to make my own way in the world - not to have things handed to me. I feel like a hunter when I lock eyes with a woman. I am more logical. I don't care as much about how I look, how I dress, what others think about me.

What emotions are good for me?
I like to feel free. Independent. I like the feeling of drive and aggression in my body. I like to be relaxed and laid back. I like to feel centred - physically, mentally, emotionally. I like to be alert and aware of the world around me.

What aspects of a woman's body do I like?
Her smell. the curve of her lower back. her butt. the back of her neck. the back of her knees and the insides of her elbows. Her belly. her bellybutton. The smooth slickness of the inside of her pussy. Her depth. Her clit and labia. her perinium. Her breasts - large or small (just not too large). The nipples. The underside of her breasts. The insides of her thighs. right where her but meets her legs. her sacrum. her spine. her hair. ears. lips. nose. the softness of her face. her hands and wrists. The outside of her arms. her armpits, The curve of her waist as she lies on her side. Her feet.The sound of her voice when she's getting fucked. The sound of her voice when she's sharing a deep part of herself. Her shoulders. That really soft bit of skin when you trace your finger from the top of her pelvis to her pussy.

What characteristics do I like in a woman?
feminine. smells good. is creative and expressive. is supportive of my path. enjoys independence. moves gracefully. Is open. Really thinks about things for herself. Has a spiritual inclination - meditation. Takes care of her body. Brings out the best in me - believes in me - admires me. Has her own opinions. Is interested in personal growth. loves to feel loved. loves to laugh - gets my sense of humour.

[Brian]

That's GREAT stuff...

What is uniquely masculine about your body?

Big shoulders, hard body, strong arms, powerful legs, muscular back, squarish head, facial hair, big hands, narrow waist/hips, awesome cock

How do you think differently from a woman?

I am aggressive in my approach to things, emotionally stable, singular in focus, don't take shit, like to make my own rules, don't mince words or walk on eggshells - I tell it like it is, protect those around me, put ethics above impulses.

What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?

I like to feel relaxed, playful and happy, or aroused.

What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)

Everything - favorites: butt, hips, thighs, lower back, waist, underside of breasts, neck, feet, ankles, jawline, hair, eyes, lips

What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO):

Positive energy - playful, upbeat, likes to smile and laugh
Nurturing - enjoys taking care of people, likes to give and contribute, wants to know what I need and what makes me feel good

Sensual - can give and receive physical affection

[the_dicknotist]

Fascinating exercise. I'll play...

What makes you different from women?

My body is built differently from them. I tend to think different than them. I tend to place a greater importance on rational thinking over emotions

What is uniquely masculine about your body?

Large frame; broad shoulders; muscular arms and legs; facial hair; greater upper body strength; cock & balls

How do you think differently from a woman?

I am more concerned with winning, fairness, and results. They are more concerned with fostering and maintaining relationships

What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?

All emotions are good for me. An emotion is never bad; how you express it can be bad.

What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)

Long, flowing, shiny, blond hair; the curve in her back; her round ass; huge, plump breasts (fake or real...doesn't matter); smooth, long legs; the way her hips sway side-to-side as she walks; the way each butt cheeks rolls up and down as she walks; her warm, inviting, sexually-hungry eyes; her smooth, glistening lips; her soft, warn skin; her long finger nails she likes to dig in my back;

What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO)

I agree. It's definitely the most important question in pickup.
Honest; great cook; quick-witted; compassion for others; nurturing; social; sexually liberated & uninhibited; playful; works to please me; insatiable sex drive; affectionate; reliable; attentive; shows graditude

[Canjay]

Ask your self some questions (as I will when I finish writing this)...

What makes you different from women?
My self-confidence drives my feeling of security. As I move through this world, any challenge I encounter I feel that when I apply my will, my strength, my focus, it will be surmounted. My ability to foster a sense of security in others

What is uniquely masculine about your body?
Broad shoulders, heavy muscles, deep chest, low resonant voice, strong chin, thick skull, powerful hands, dynamic potential, my height and of course, my cock and my balls

How do you think differently from a woman?
I think first, feel later. I focus on the rational, the operational, the next step, the accomplishment, the goal, the attaining, the rising to the challenge, the taking up the gauntlet, fighting not necessarily to win, but to have fought. Acting on my own, not seeking consensus, standing alone if needed.



What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?
I am comfortable crying, but prefer not too. Can control my anger, but feel it is wasted energy. I prefer laughing and making others laugh, feeling calm, composed and energized. Feeling focused and capable. Determined and flexible. Grateful and driven.
My best is that feeling of thrilled anticipation before and then the feeling of relieved, satisfied accomplishment after

What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)
The curve of her throat, softness of her lips, the long lines of her legs. The roundness of her hips and the glide of her neck muscles towards her shoulders

What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO)

Independence, strength of character, emotional stability, sense of adventure, courage, fun, caring and free-spirited, passionate and creative, sexual

[yeayea]

What makes you different from women?

Everything. My physical form to my outlook on the world and the way I relate to the world.

What is uniquely masculine about your body?

My chest, my shoulders, my fat belly, my cock, the way I smell

How do you think differently from a woman?

More direct (A implies B), I dont care why people do or say things - I dont analyze others behavior in the same way, I simply take in that as information and proceed accordingly, more secure in myself, less emotional

What emotions are good for you? Do you like to cry, or feel angry, or relaxed?

happiness, sensuality, pleasure, feeling strong and fit, feeling relaxed and content, being comfortable and outgoing, being a leader and decisive, sharing knowledge with others, feeling physical exhaustion from exercise

What aspects of a woman's body do you like? (fake titties don't count dammit)

curve of the hips (my favorite), shape of the ass (tied for favorite), shape of her lips, legs

What characteristics do you like in a woman? (the most important question in pickup IMO)

supportive, sensual, playful

awesome exercise - keep em coming Brian!

[jontyc]

Originally Posted by Brian

I just discovered that in fashion, what accentuates what is uniquely feminine is considered fashionable on a woman, for example, woman's jeans nowadays round out a woman's hips and butt. The same is true for men's clothing, for example, the classic blazer makes a man's shoulders wide and square, and his hips narrow.

I wear what I'm comfortable in and makes me stand taller gives me confidence/chutzpah and I feel more manly.

But I can't understand this obsession in England with guys dressing all the same when they go out: black trousers, fancy shirt - (thats it) they all look like fashion victims/clones! Unfortunately my family think I dress "too old fashioned"/"too old", but I like sharp suits, Hats/Fedoras, blazers etc paired with my trusty classic Burberry trenchcoat for the cold, wind and rain AND the deep pockets I don't give a good godamn if anyone likes it or not - also for the reason that suits etc give my body structure and shoulders and minimise my assymetric bodyshape. I've 36 pairs of shoes/boots, and none are trainers. I like proper shoes. Leather lined. I just don't feel manly in trainers!

There's a trend in male dressing in the UK that makes them, IMO, look LESS manly, scruffy/trampy/poor, even metrosexual: Ill-fitting, worn out overlarge (that look like your big brothers) jeans worn half hanging off so you look like droopy drawers and the top of the bum & underpants showing, trainers - Ugh!, tracksuits (an athlete are you? lol), baggy shapeless jackets, 'hoodies' and shirts...Beanie hats, or the brutish looking baseball caps.

It's almost as if UK guys are tyrying to HIDE the fact that they are men, as these clothes make them look shapeless, lumpy and turn them into shuffling shambling stooping boys, not men.

So it seems that fashion and menswear in the UK is moving away from clean, classic sharp lines that complement, accentuate and enhance masculinity, into I dare say...FEMINISED smoothed, shapeless metrosexuality? Where men are more concerned with going with the conventional crowd than being stylish?

[Canjay]

Lets face it, gay men drive the fashion world, with a few notable exceptions.

Both mens and womens.

But this thread is about answering the questions, not about fashion. That's why it's under "Inner Game". Not "The Stuff I Put on to Cover My Body so I'm Warm and Avoid Being Arrested"

[jontyc]

yeah I see what you mean, went a bit on a tangent there soz.

I guess the general point I'm drivin' at is if you feel confident and centered in yourself, then wearing what gives you a boost in terms of what makes you look/feel more manly/authoritive automatically gives you or helps to give you inner game, you know?

As the Hermeticist said, "as above, so below", to paraphrase for personal style and debonair manliness "the clothes maketh the man"