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| Want to start your reality? Start with yourself. Think of yourself as your client. How do you make yourself successful with work, women, and life? Start with thinking in the image of success. How do you look successful/attractive/etc... so you can see yourself as that. What kind of clothes would you wear? How would you comb your hair? What would the expression be like on your face? How would you stand? How would you be groomed? How would you deal with certain situations? It starts with you, if you can see yourself successful then you'll be seen as successful by you and others, and you can start acting successful. Take a look in the mirror. The person you're seeing is your client. How would you help that person to be where he/she wants to be? Edit: Yes belief is very important. Thanks for the input PickUpPro. That's why look in the mirror and see yourself, what do you have to do to get where you want to be? Remember you are your own client. Then, when you see the image of what you desire to be, create ways to get there and be that. Last edited by FreeVerse : 01-25-2008 at 02:00 AM. |
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| I agree with you wholeheartedly. However, looking in the mirror (for example) and imagining yourself successful is effective only if you truly believe what you are saying to yourself. Many people say "I am successful" over and over again without ever truly believing what they are saying. This is called "affirmations." Your strategy is VERY effective when you truly BELIEVE that you are successful. Truly believing you are successful with women is a little more difficult for a lot of people. Shifting your thinking from affirmations to belief requires some success - even a single success - with a woman (at least in my case). Again, I agree with what you are saying. Improving our game requires taking our psychological mindset a little deeper. |
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