Struggle getting the right vibe....

[littleM]

Ive been reading alot from this forum for a while but this is my first post.

Ive been "gaming" for about 5 months and i feel ive made some good progress, but I only really see that when im in the playful, talkative, "cocky" vibe. And when I am in the state im generating plenty of attraction and can usually at least get a phone number.

My problem is getting into that state! I cant seem to force myself into that playful cocky state when i want to be. Sometimes ill go out and it will take me a couple of hours to get into that state, and other times its doesnt happen at all and I go home dwelling over the mistakes I made.

Any suggestions or techniques I can use to get myself into a good, playful state to go out and have fun and meet women?

LittleM

PS.. looking forward to the Helsinki bootcamp!

[Brian]

I know what you mean...

In my experience, the more I worried about, and tried to control, my state, the worse it got. So I started allowing myself to NOT be in state.

Lo and behold, I found myself "in state" a lot more. States come and go, and you won't always be "in the zone" or whatever. But it doesn't matter - you don't need to be on fire to have good interactions with women. It's more important that you relax and allow yourself to feel however you want to feel at the moment.

What you'll notice is that you'll fall into that "good state" a lot more when you take pressure off yourself.

[Hengman]

Eh, from personal experience from being "sarge dead", I usually listen to music that would amp me up to actually get me in the mood.

It helps me A LOT.

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