Help me out - confidence

[Daga]

Hi, can you give me some good resources (links, books, etc..) or ideas to work on my confidence?

[Brian]

Experience.

[Daga]

Ok, but what I mean is if is there any exercises to do?

[Beckstar]

When you have too much anxiety to go out and approach strangers you can start with your girls in social circle.

Work with your anxiety and beliefs....

When you get good, They will introduce you new girls..

Maybe it works...

[Brian]

Ok you gotta read the attraction code because it talks about confidence in a way that you've probably never heard before. Basically "confidence" is a myth. What's really going on in your head when you "look confident" is very different.

I don't advise getting more confident, because there's no such thing as "confidence."

[Daga]

I wiil do that, thanks...

[Zudnic]

When I moved to Toronto, was living in Phoenix before that. In the latter found Women almost as easy as Cuba! If you can't get laid within an hour anywhere in Cuba, something wrong with ya. So Phoenix must be pretty good. Yes, it was possibly the best place for a single guy or just Me. Any restaurant or bar, Id get the employee's. Not only attracted a hostess at a hotel country and western themed restaurant. Made out with her in the parking lot on her break and I was more then drunk. Even played with a stripper at a club, who flat out told Me she needed to get laid. Met a girl at the mall, got her to my house in 5 minutes of meeting her and got laid 30 minutes after being at home........ Toronto, seemed like the Women just not into Me at all! Was 24 single and I thought good looking having my first dry spell ever. Before Phoenix lived in Vancouver and in that city I was the Man amongst my friends! Hottest girl in the bar guaranteed Id get at least her digits. Had girls giving Me their numbers without asking! Bank tellers to grocery store cashiers. So why no action in Toronto all of a sudden? No idea even to this day........ Did something out of character and not needed though. Got a job at a clothing store filled with young hot Women employee's and customers in a major shopping mall. Club Monaco kind of like the Gap but a little more fashion forward..... That worked and it was a lot cheaper over college/university. Seriously if under 25 get a job in a store that fits your tastes and style. Make friends with fellow employee's and have contact easy ice breaker with customers who also share your likes.... I wore their clothes before getting that job. If I was not 35 would do it again! Even if just part time.................