Inner game flaw

[Flame]

I only recently noticed this about myself and I still havent figured out how to get rid of this inner game flaw..

Back in the day when I was unaware of this community or 'PUA' for that matter, I was usually only comfortable to approach women when I was on my own. Whenever I was with friends I would feel pressured and hardly ever approached anyone. In other words, in being with friends I kinda eliminated myself from the game.

That went away when I got more comfortable around women in general, I didnt really worry about my friends anymore. They sometimes act like assholes and can be a huge cockblock. This sometimes gets in the way, but I got enough material down to turn in into something useful.. neg.. ("who the fuck are you to judge me for who my friends are?" etc..).. And of course the more friends the better (i.e. DHV). A few of them I regularly sarge with.. even turning women into contests (I bet you cannot get this or that girl to kiss you.. I bet you cannot merge those two sets AND introduce me within 5 minutes.. etc...).. oh well good times. So now the bad..

Ive LOST my SOLO. Its like I now need the challenge or the pressure, whatever you could call it, that being in a group of trainee PUA's brings. Its not that Im afraid to approach (besides of course the usual AA but thats nothing new) but more that Im not 'feeling it' if that makes any sense? Im not in a gaming mood whenever Im on my own..

Can anyone relate to this?.. in any way?

[PlayboyEP]

Yo,

This isn't some major inner game flaw. I feel where you're coming from. Similarly, around June, I got really good at gaming. But come early July, I took off 3 weeks from going out so I could focus on summer school. As soon as I got back, I felt like if I had started from stratch. Powerless. I felt like it was 1 step forward, 2 steps back. But now, since I barreled through it for a few weeks, I'm at a better place than I've ever been. You've now been programmed to attain motivation from an external source. Which you can go in and change. Since it is a change, it will feel uncomfortable until it becomes habit. Stick through it...and soon you get that genuine motivation based on willpower and focus. Give it some time. This isn't something new, you used to come from this internal place.

Miracles happen when you sarge alone,
Enrique aka Playboy aka Enrique Iglesias

[FreeVerse]

When I havent done something for awhile It takes me awhile to get it going the way it was, but that doesn't stop me from doing it. It's a process.

[king_david23]

definately do something to get the ball rolling - baby steps and stalk it down - its like riding a unicycle - you dont forget how but getting back on and riding is a real bitch for awhile

[Brian]

dude just go direct on the next cute girl you see. It'll be like jumping into the cold water. next thing you know you're swimming again.