Vision's Intro

[Vision]

So here's the quick and dirty... I was a natural... I know that because as a kid I never had an issue picking up girls... All through high school and then when I went to college I lost it. Not completely but some how it slowly started getting away from me and when that happens confidence... buh bye...
That said, I've always been able to pull a girl but I want what I used to have... I once met a girl through a buddy of mine (and his girl at the time) and within a 10-20 minutes we were having sex in her parents living room. I want to know what I did right to make that happen.
I've read some NLP stuff... Listened to some of D's cocky funny... I've had success with it... Just broke up with my girl of 2 years and last night I Bought Magic Bullets and Vin's program. I'm going to do a workshop with Vin (soon I hope) and see if this stuff gels for me. I know I have the potential to be great I just need some help forgetting all the wrong shit I've learned over the years. If that makes any sense...
I live in Jersy City (Jersey Shitty) and work in Manhatten. I look forward to meeting you guys and learning along with you. I'm certain there are good times ahead.
PS. I snowboard (Blues - rarely Blacks) and I lift when I have the time. I'm 34 and I'm from Cali so wingmen are welcome.

[flow]

Hi Vision

Welcome

I know that feeling of wanting to know how it works. My life has been like a roller coaster, sometimes its been completely void of women and sometimes I seems to be able to choose any woman, because they are all chasing me. Never understood how this worked.

Now I've been getting hanging around the pickup community for almost a year and I'm beginning the understand a lot. But I've also seen a lot of stuff that does not work or doesn't explain the right things. So there is a risk that you will begin with learning more useless shit.

My advice to you, since you where a natural, is to search around for stuff you recognise. When you see or hear anything about pick up and you think "I know this, I have done that! and it worked." then you have stumbled on one of the pieces you need. When you have at least one such starting point you can start developing that area since its part of your natural game. When you see that you begin to regain your skill in that area you can look for other areas and methods that fit well together with your natural skills.

Good luck
/Flow

[Vision]

It's good to know I'm not the only one that has to find his way back... I anticipate that this will be a great experience even if I have to find all the pieces to the puzzle that I've lost or just flat out wasn't aware of...