A Little about Me

[Renaissance]

Hey guys, I am really new to this community. I have always been one of those guys who was always with girls. I was always one of the popular kids. Finally, I met this this really great girl. She seemed to be everything I wanted. She was really cute, smart, independent, and confident. I was with her, exclusively for two years. It was really great until I found out that she had been cheating on me. She cheated on me with some guy who she always used to say was just a friend. Worst thing is she was messing with him 8 months before actually admitting it to me. Long story short I broke it off.

It's been about 7 months now and I have been trying to bring a new lady into my life. In the past I always hadd girls around me, but had no idea what I did to keep them around. Also I just moved to a another university. Ever since the break up it has not been easy for me to meet new people.

I am 20 years old and had no idea that people actually study and can teach how to do this stuff. Finding this community was a God send for me. My goals are really simple. I want to become a better and more confident person. Someone who is aware of what he does to make things happen. I am in this to get the girl and to make new friends.

I know it will take time, effort, and sacrifice. This is something I really want to get handled. I want to start from scratch. I hope I'm in the right place.

[Brian]

I came from a similar background with girls and being social. When I first found the Community, I ended up going backwards at first because I became hyper aware of everything and started thinking too much. It paid off in the long run, because I learned how to consciously improve myself, so there's no limit to my potential.

Make sure you come at this like a fun hobby, somethign cool and interesting that makes your life better, and NOT something you have to be perfect at in order to get girls to like you.

Glad you found us