British Newbie

[Teeze]

I am Teeze, I am from London, England but now live in the States. My wife of 8 years just left me and I am lost. I saw a program on PUA's and thought "Thats what i have always wanted to be". I was and still am shy around women and want to change my whole game. I am currently reading The Game by Neil Strauss and love what he has to say about the whole PUA scene. I want to be Mystery,Style,Matador,Maddash,Sin etc. I want to live that life. What i want to know is how do i get to be like them? Confidence is a big issue with me as is my shyness. I can talk to anyone but put me in a situation where i have to try and get a date or a number from a woman and i freeze up. Can anyone give me some advice on how to dress? How to overcome the fear of approaching women and how to get the number and date? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.