EMDR Therapy (Question for Vin.)

[Gabler]

Originally Posted by rarebreed

I remember when Brian gave me some tough love. Man was I pissed off, but I didn't see the message he was trying to convey to me. I just easily got offended because somewhere in his post I noticed some truths about me that I was trying to deny.

Yes, i agree. The world is your mirror. I approach women when i'm out, and escalate, so it's not that.

But it's well known that some people work hard & get little results, why some people do not som much and get big results. Ans so on, and so on... Learning strategy, personality traits, belifs, abundance mindest & whatever..

and so on, and so on... Let's just say that i know people in the community that have been out for years, and get little or no results, while some catch on very fast... and so on, and so on, you catch my drift...

[Gabler]

What i'm talkin' about is the hollistic approach to this whole PU thing. Like if success barrier exists in one part of ones life, it usually applys to a whole lot of other areas of ones life. When the rest of my life is great, women come to me left and right. But when my life ain't that great, i can't find a woman to save my life...Ok, have to get to school now..

[rarebreed]

Originally Posted by Gabler

Yes, i agree. The world is your mirror. I approach women when i'm out, and escalate, so it's not that.

But it's well known that some people work hard & get little results, why some people do not som much and get big results. Ans so on, and so on... Learning strategy, personality traits, belifs, abundance mindest & whatever..

and so on, and so on... Let's just say that i know people in the community that have been out for years, and get little or no results, while some catch on very fast... and so on, and so on, you catch my drift...

As far as I'm concerned I focus on what I can do and how I go about doing it. I know there are guys who "get it" and have a better understanding than I do, but I don't go around worrying about them or comparing myself to them. That takes the focus off what I'm doing and how I'm doing it.

Everybody has their own lot in life. Some people are more successful than others and some are not, but they are still finding a way through whatever means possible. Life isn't fair. So what. That's actually a good thing.

Either the glass is half full or half empty. We all choose how we want to see it. Nothing anyone can do about it. Or is there?