DEL Clarification (5 - 10 seconds)

[DMuffin]

Could someone explain the reasoning on why there is a timelimit of 5 - 10 seconds for overt kino? (Holding hands for example)

I assume that this is for club scenario's? What about day2 situations?

Wouldnt it be MORE beneficial if you hold the girls hand for longer than 10 seconds???

[Orleans]

The longer you hold the overt kino the more tension and release there will be. Also it can come off really weird and creepy if done in the wrong way.

As with any rule it can be broken and bended to fit your style but it's a good guideline.

[DMuffin]

Thats true. I have seen guys "handshake" girls and not let go until 5 mins in convo.

I understand how it can generate tension, but could you please elaborate on release?

[Orleans]

By holding the physical contact you're releasing the tension built up by the move in/move out escalation. Think about it.

[MrRabbit]

Yes, the tension on, then off, is a push pull of sorts...also, you want to remain a challenge. if she is sure you want to have sex with her, no deal...if she is sure you don't want to have sex with her, she will revalidate her sexual power by rejecting you, she can't handle the rejection as well as you can believe it or not.
Keep her guessing, push and pull the tension, then make her beg for your cock. "say please"

[DMuffin]

thanks it shed some light