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Old 06-12-2008, 08:12 PM
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Sorry, I've become disgusted with great majority of the Pick Up Community, especially the old school Pick Up. They tend to see women as enemies, as if they were a price, a symbol of self-validation, something that they will find fulfillment in (and they would, but only if they give to them, rather than taking from them). Bunch of sorry saps. I apologize if I'm being too rude here.

Stop learning lines, routines, magic tricks, etc. How about you begin reading a book or writing a journal? getting involved in clubs, practice a sport? So not only you have something to talk about when you meet someone, but also you have something valuable for yourself and to give to others . I read somewhere "To give value, You have to BE value". I cant agree more. You can't fake you have value, you just have it or you don't. But don't stop there, don't be selfish, don't just try to grow on your own. Grow and contribute, contribute to the life of others, help others, give life to others, let others feed off your energy, your ideas, your wisdom.

Up until a couple of months ago, I thought that Pick Up could actually enable a fulfillment I was lacking and could also give fulfillment to the many women I got involved with. I was wrong. It was an illusion, I didn't have any real fulfillment. If I didn't have it, how could they? I realized I had to do something.

At the age of 19, I'm proud to say that I impress countless people with my public speaking skills and that has led me to speak in many classrooms in High Schools. I speak to a bunch of kids, from troublemakers to Advanced Placement kids. I tell my story and I motivate them to not only finish HS and start college, but to also put their lives in order, help others, etc. I talk to them about time management, emotions, etc. By doing that, I feel that I'm actually contributing BEYOND myself. That has inspired me to do something else. I decided to step up a notch and not only speak in High School, but also to MENTOR Middle School and Elemtary School kids. I worked an entire week on a plan, presented to a series of principals and now I will be mentoring in a school for the summer. Damn, it feels good! I'm actually making a difference in where it's needed most, our children.

And the women? I'm happy to tell you I enjoy the women I meet more than ever. I meet intelligent, amazing, caring and beautiful-in-the-inside women. I don't get laid as much as before, I admit. But I'm happy, I'm vell happy.

I want to encourage to do nice things for people, give something without expecting anything in return. Make a difference!
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Old 06-12-2008, 10:02 PM
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Great attitude! One of the keys in the Attraction Code that I found really revealing.
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Old 06-13-2008, 04:15 AM
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yup, very important, to do it for them and not expect anything in return.
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Old 06-18-2008, 12:33 AM
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Can we get a "BANNED" label over this spamming thing?
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Old 06-18-2008, 06:34 AM
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Default I cant agree enough

Not Only is this all attractive and nice and good willed, but I believe it is a must for humans of our generation especially the younger ones like Daniel and I (I'm 18).

A few people have stumbled onto something very motivational and inspiring. Pick up. That lead to people thinking more about self-help and educating themselves in the best ways to live their life (this forum is an example of that)
. The tools you learn from this way of life shouldn't be limited to just women. It should be about improving yourself in every possible way (I'm sure I'm preaching to the quire here) but I think its time we all start to think about what we can do for our world.

I mean were going to be burdened with so many huge problems in the future:
Global warming,
Global starvation,
Over population,
Water scarcity,
A likely depression in the US economy

are only a few! No other generation in history has had to deal with this, and no other generation has been as big as ours. So I say spread the word, start to do something about it because I believe we have a responsibility to take up arms.

Its kinda off topic but I'm sick of all my school friends, and people all over the internet, so encompassed in the small little problems of their life, they ignore the giant ones that will eventually annihilate all other problems. So why not spend time now, when we have it, preparing ourselves mentally, physically, socially for changes. So do something and don't expect to be 'rewarded' for it because everyone is guilty when it comes to these problems, the least you could do is spread the word. You have learnt how to be interesting and attractive. People LIKE to listen to you and think your a role model, make some positive change with that power! And if you use it to get you laid along the way then so be it
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Old 06-18-2008, 04:58 PM
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To be honest, there is no such thing as global warming. If there is, was the ice age considered global freezing? This is just a period of time where the earth returns to its normal temperature from millions of years ago and sure enough in a few more million years it will rotate around to being frozen again.

P.S. sorry for the off topic post.lol

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