Why do I run out of things to say?

[Domino]

Running out of things to say or "going blank" is a huge sticking point of mine ever since I converted into natural game, no scripted routine crap. But as a result everytime I open a group of girls or a lone wolf after my opener I can talk for a minute and then after that if the girls are not trying to keep the conversation going we sit there in an awkward silent moment to the point where she or they will walk away. I've read Orleans conversationalism post and it's great but how are you suppose to pick topics of a sentence if there is no sentence with topics to pick from and if the girls are not trying to push the conversation along?

Example:

Me: Hey how's your night going?

HB7 2 set: Great

Me: So are you guys like identical twins or something?

HB7 2 set: *giggles* No we are just friends

(at this point im in a position where I have to keep asking questions to keep the conversation going and I become "the question guy" and the conversation goes flat because im seeking rapport way to early and hence the girls turn there backs towards me aka blowout and yes im using kino on the opener so thats not an issue)

My wingman who is a natural and does'nt know about the game always pulls a girl from the club. I watch him talk to girls and he never ever runs out of things to say, his mouth is always moving if we go into a 2 set together and he is talking to one girl and im talking to the other I always am the one who "goes blank" while he is doing awesome with his girl. I asked him about what he says to girls that he keeps the conversation moving and he says the same thing always "I say whatever is on my mind" yea but what if there is nothing on my mind to say? "if how I stepped on a nail earlier pops into my head I will talk about it" Thats what he told me.

Thanks for your input!

[Orleans]

You can't think of things to say because you're not calm and relaxed. When you allow yourself to relax and focus on being curious about the other person there is so much for you to say that you won't even have time to get it all out.

[Jayemes]

First, Orleans didn't mention it, but if you go to his blog, a couple months ago he posted something about conversation that may be useful.

Second, to build upon what he said here, when you are calm, and focused outwardly on the girl, you will listen to her. When you truly listen to her you will be able to respond to something she said. So in your example, she said the girl with her was a friend. So make a statement about friendship. For example, "Cool, I'm here with my friend too. We always have the best time when we go out. Especially when we come here. Don't even as about the crossdresser conversation we had here a couple weeks ago. So what is your best story of being out together?

That question along with good, friendly but strong eye contact, should compel her to give you a story that should get the ball rolling so that she is doing a decent amount of the talking.

Also, listen to your natural friend and get comfortable saying exactly what is on your mind. That means expressing yourself fully and saying, if you run out of stuff to say, "Darn, you are SO cute, you are making me nervous and run out of things to say. I am so mad at you right now (this and the remaining last part with a sly smile). Just for that, I'm not talking to you any more Our relationship is over I'm breaking up with you as my conversation partner

[Lester]

Practice talking to cashiers and sales assistants. crack some jokes with them. be flirtatious. I mean, you can really have fun with about anything as long as your vibe is right. for instance.

you go to buy some JW and lady ask for you're id. you can be like "what, you don't think i'm 21, i'm so offended" of course you're not serious you're joking. she'll be like "hey, i gotta ask everyone." then you go "man, I'm going to remember this, you better be extra nice to me next time i'm in here." and all the while you're having fun, smiling at her, getting under her skin and shit., while every other guy and same the same bullshit pc crap.

fuck that.

get under people's skin, jump on their radar. know what I mean.

[raki™]

..i talk a lot. So when i'm not talking then there's something wrong about the person i'm talking to. It's not my fault.

..and when i say i talk a lot.. i'm saying i enjoy talking and people enjoy listening. So if it ain't flying, it's not my fault.. Don't be too hard on yourself, you don't measure your success by how much bs you can churn out per minute. I measure mine by finding a girl i like to fuck because when i find her, i wouldn't worry about things to say, i'd talk about things that would lead us to fucking.

i stall if she's not so fuckable i my eyes. I don't have anything to say to them non-fuckables.. Except maybe "Who's your fuck-able friend?". If they managed to seduce me and DHV themselves to me.. uhm, i would.. MM works ON me..ü

[Zudnic]

Lester, is right thats what I do. Pretty much every girl I come into contact with I'll practice on. Even ones have zero interest in. Rare occasion that I get poor result/response from girls at places I buy things at. Even had waitresses take breaks and sit down at my table. I've watched a lot of movies, from every era and have a good memory. Often times will use a favorite scene as a building block foundation and also like stand up comedy collect bits an pieces as well for building humor.