Use it to your advantage! by Lester

[Lester]

Issue: I don't have a car to pick her up in.

New perspective: I can't get more compliance by having her drive on the dates.

Issue: Her BF is around ( I know, not a good scenario)

New Perspective: "This is going to be great, I can build up more sexual tension this way, I can be coy when I flirt and she can't do anything because her BF is around, the sexual tension will go through the roof!"

Issue: I'm bald.

New Perspective: Women love it when I rub my ball head all over their clit, legs, vagina, etc.

Issue: I'm broke.

New Perspective: I don't have to feel all this weight worry about money, I can concentrate of other things like having a good time. Plus I can get more compliance when she pays.

Issue:Things didn't work out this week in my dating life and I have no dates.

New Perspective: I have time to relax and do the little things that I need to do, Clean my place, my car, my room, etc. Then when I go out the next time I'll be ready when she comes to my place.

Issue: I don't look 1/4 as good as Brad Pitt does.

New Perspective: Since looks are not in my control I don't have to worry about it. I can concentrate on being more Genuine and real, Women are MORE attracted to that anyways.


There's so many things going on in life, and when someone gets hit with a problem, situation or some issue you can always find a way to get stuck in it or you can use it to give you boost, and progress.

remember the saying "it's how you play your cards" well that comes into play here. It's how you use the situation to you advantage. There are so many things out there to reframe.

[Zudnic]

Its all attitude and also forgetting what all Women (Mothers especially) have told guys what gets the girl. My hometown has a above ground subway train system. Its one of the best places to meet Women. Not sure were you live, but found big cities make for great cheap dates. Its fun to walk from a subway station in a place with a busy interesting downtown. With the girl you just met on the subway! Destination coffee shop near her stop that happens to be yours as well. Window shop on the way and keep her laughing, then you can flirt more touchy. Its better day pick up if its at the end of the day. Less chance they need to be at work.

[Lester]

My mother told me to talk to another girl in front of the one I like, to get her kind of jealous.

I guess the "kind of" doesn't make it sound too "gaming."

[Lester]

There are so many things out there that can be seen as an antagonist to you but in reality if you interpret it another way or have a new perspective on it, it can be used to your favor, for your progression.