this one girl

[sam]

Hey


I'm having a little trouble with my feelings about one girl who always makes me want her...
It al started a year and half ago: She was crazy about me and i just made love with her because she was a hotty (she's SO hot). Then i started to know her and I fell in love (stupid)... No problem would you say BUT she had a boyfriend. And didn't wanted to leave him for me
I tried to forget her but she kept comming back and just made me horny and then say "sorry i don't want to cheat again..."
After a mounth I was broken down of not knowing what she wanted and just ignored her. I did't spoke to her in a year


And then monday I saw her... It was on a party in town.
She knew i would come and dressed especially hot for me (that i know from her friend,whose my sisters best friend).
I saw her and from the minute i did I just knew I wanted her...
She came to talk to me and started to tease me:
"How is gloria (my ex-gf)?" me;"It's over. there is already been someone else"
My drunken friend:"it also over,he's back in the game" she looking around,putting her all her fingers up :"Can you count them on these?"
friend; "you know him;he can't :d"
she(looking around);"Is there one here you want for this evening?" me:"yes,"and just staring into her eyes with a grin on my face
She didn't know what to say,she was astonished...
I left, kissed her on the cheek and said: see you friday (there is a little festival in town where everyone goes)





I don't know what to think of ,and i really would like to have her again...
Any ideas?

[Dolce]

First of all, falling in love is the one and only reason why you should get into pickup, so that´s a fucking awesome thing. Don´t beat yourself up about it. If you want her, just use your regular game that works on all the other girls as well. Just follow your regular steps and it will all be allright. Did you figure out whether or not she is still with her boyfriend?

[sam]

yes

She still with him. Told me herself when I asked how she was.


grtz

[Zudnic]

Key to remember unless you have spent a lot of time together. The like is more of what you think is her! It's not whats under neath the real girl. If I start really liking a girl. I'll purposely see others more in friends mode over getting that one in bed. When you start focusing on she is the only one. Can cloud your judgment and even ruin your chances with a potential good "girlfriend".

[Dolce]

If she´s still with him, you have no business dealing with this girl. I think this all comes down to a scarcity mindset, you just don´t believe yet that there is a girl just like her around the corner. Don´t steal girlfriends, that is just weak and bitchboyish behaviour. There are way to many quality single girls out there to even bother.

If you don´t take my advice to heart, than that´s fine and perfectly understandable. I´ll tell you one thing though, if you steal her away from him and get her as your girlfriend, you will always know she cheated on her last boyfriend and she will do the same to you.

[mycer]

Originally Posted by Dolce

If she´s still with him, you have no business dealing with this girl. I think this all comes down to a scarcity mindset, you just don´t believe yet that there is a girl just like her around the corner. Don´t steal girlfriends, that is just weak and bitchboyish behaviour. There are way to many quality single girls out there to even bother.

If you don´t take my advice to heart, than that´s fine and perfectly understandable. I´ll tell you one thing though, if you steal her away from him and get her as your girlfriend, you will always know she cheated on her last boyfriend and she will do the same to you.

there is nothing wrong with taking another man's girl if she's going to be happier with you (this also means you are going to treat her better and be more committed).

[Zudnic]

Originally Posted by mycer

there is nothing wrong with taking another man's girl if she's going to be happier with you (this also means you are going to treat her better and be more committed).

Just what does the more "committed" entail! I've had guys try and steal the girls I was with. Both those girls only real relationships I have had and both left me for other guys. The only one that tried that bothered me was my own cousin. Who I also considered a friend. I got him several girls while with that girl never cheated though. Ended up in a long distance deal with her and he started "hanging" out with her, movies, dinner, telling her all kinds of stuff about me. My only regret with that relationship was that I did not cheat. The stuff he said was true..... I'm the guy nice guys who like my girlfriends go WTF does she see in him. I deserved those girls leaving me. Especially the second cause I did cheat and treated her like shit! Her only crime loving Me......... I know deep down she is better off without me. So by all means steal away. The only girls I will not date are ones who have been with or are dating friends! If she is considering leaving the guy. Usually a good reason why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!