comprehension levels, SitRel, Compliance and Realizations

[rarebreed]

I will put the post up as soon as I come back.

Again, just posting this to hold myself accountable for finishing the post. Please do not delete this. I WILL finish the post.

[Lester]

always loved your posts rarebreed, they've helped a lot of things "click"

[rarebreed]

I was just reading the post on Situational Relevance that is on theApproach's mini e-course e-mail thingie. I got to say that I've heard Vin talk about it on the Dating Diablo, but for some reason I am beter at comprehending information when it's in print. Anyways, I had a few realizations as I was thinking back to certain experiences I've had in the past.

Comprehension Levels:

As I was reading theApproach's mini e-course there were a couple of things that kinda "clicked". Vin and Sebastian talk about low comprehension and high comprehension levels. Low comprehension level type stuff requires fluff talk, quick jokes with a punch line, banter, facial expressions, kino, thumb wars and high fives. I want everyone to know that I'm paraphrasing stuff. Anyways, high comprehension levels include schoolwork, using languaging, storytelling, rapport, deep rapport, palm reading, the cube and long sentences and open ended questions.

I was looking back at times when I had girls escalate on me or show some form of interest in me and I also recall girlfriends I've had in the past and how it happened. I'm just going to simplify it with two categories which are party girls and non-party girls.

Party Girls (ONS) are receptive to:
Highly Charged Sexual Language
Compliance Techniques
Shaping
Low-Comprehension Levels
Very limited high comprehension levels

Non-Party Girls are receptive to:
High Comprehension Levels
Compliance Techniques
Shaping

Non-Party Girls are receptive to Highly Sexually Charged Language and Low-Comprehension Levels, but calibration is of utmost essence or else it could backfire. When I say non-party girls I mean girls who are willing to hook up, but need more time than party girls who are already willing to drop the panties yet only need a bit more persuading to get them off quicker.

I know a lot of stuff I'm writing seems or is paraphrased regurgitated stuff from Vin and other PUA's, but this acutally helps me to fully understand my past experiences in a logical and rational way.

As far as compliance goes, some girls will be super compliant from the get go. I've had a bartender give me some free shots and all I did was banter with her. There have been other occassions where my compliance was just off the roof and it was easy, but there have also been many times where I'm not getting enough compliance from some of these woman. I'm just beginning to realize that whenever I don't get compliance I can just punish the behavior with some push/pull or cocky funny banter or by talking to some other woman and come back later and run some compliance techniques until I get the compliance I'm looking for.

I still got so much to learn, but I'm starting to have more fun with it. It turns out the more fun I have the better my results.

I didn't really have anything to say about Situational Relevance, although, Comprehension Levels have to do with Situational Relevance.

[Lester]

Originally Posted by rarebreed

I was just reading the post on Situational Relevance that is on theApproach's mini e-course e-mail thingie. I got to say that I've heard Vin talk about it on the Dating Diablo, but for some reason I am beter at comprehending information when it's in print. Anyways, I had a few realizations as I was thinking back to certain experiences I've had in the past.

Comprehension Levels:

As I was reading theApproach's mini e-course there were a couple of things that kinda "clicked". Vin and Sebastian talk about low comprehension and high comprehension levels. Low comprehension level type stuff requires fluff talk, quick jokes with a punch line, banter, facial expressions, kino, thumb wars and high fives. I want everyone to know that I'm paraphrasing stuff. Anyways, high comprehension levels include schoolwork, using languaging, storytelling, rapport, deep rapport, palm reading, the cube and long sentences and open ended questions.

I was looking back at times when I had girls escalate on me or show some form of interest in me and I also recall girlfriends I've had in the past and how it happened. I'm just going to simplify it with two categories which are party girls and non-party girls.

Party Girls (ONS) are receptive to:
Highly Charged Sexual Language
Compliance Techniques
Shaping
Low-Comprehension Levels
Very limited high comprehension levels

Non-Party Girls are receptive to:
High Comprehension Levels
Compliance Techniques
Shaping

Non-Party Girls are receptive to Highly Sexually Charged Language and Low-Comprehension Levels, but calibration is of utmost essence or else it could backfire. When I say non-party girls I mean girls who are willing to hook up, but need more time than party girls who are already willing to drop the panties yet only need a bit more persuading to get them off quicker.

I know a lot of stuff I'm writing seems or is paraphrased regurgitated stuff from Vin and other PUA's, but this acutally helps me to fully understand my past experiences in a logical and rational way.

As far as compliance goes, some girls will be super compliant from the get go. I've had a bartender give me some free shots and all I did was banter with her. There have been other occassions where my compliance was just off the roof and it was easy, but there have also been many times where I'm not getting enough compliance from some of these woman. I'm just beginning to realize that whenever I don't get compliance I can just punish the behavior with some push/pull or cocky funny banter or by talking to some other woman and come back later and run some compliance techniques until I get the compliance I'm looking for.

I still got so much to learn, but I'm starting to have more fun with it. It turns out the more fun I have the better my results.

I didn't really have anything to say about Situational Relevance, although, Comprehension Levels have to do with Situational Relevance.

With "no party girls" as you put it, I've learned that it's better to build more rapport and have them more comfortable with you. Than once that's taken care of she can then get sexual with you.

Sexual "party" girls. Want to know that you're safe and you have a car outside that can she can feel comfortable in