What do you text if she doesn't pick up the phone?

[Dreamcatcher]

Hi Guys, I joined here after reading the Attraction Code and I after a one full read I can feel that it's truely groundbreaking.

On to my question. On Saturday I sat almost opposite a hot Russian on the same table (long cafeteria type) within a local sandwitch shop and opened situational when a guy tried to squeeze past her as he was leaving. I kept talking about my day then made reference to her accent and started talking about travels to Eastern Europe, comparing the culture and artistry of those places to the west. She became more intrigued and started asking me about myself, I playfully qualified her and she asked me what my good points and bad points were...so I did the same and tested to see if she was adventurous...in many ways. I used that as a reason to hold her hand to playfully read her palm. I kept holding her hand lightly and stoking it softly with my thumb. She left it there and I could tell from her facial expressions she was enjoying it.

We arranged to meet up the next day provided the weather was good and she wasn't seeing her friends to go to the park. I sent her a text saying meet me for a coffee after you're dome with the park. No reply. I called later the next day, but still no reply. This lunchtime I called once but again no pickup. I'm confused by this and don't know what to text or how to frame the message in a way that's dominant, yet not being forceful to suggest we meet. What should I text ? - any ideas would be very appreciated.

Dreamcatcher

[Lester]

"OMG something reminded me of you."

The Code came with a No Flakes Ebook, check that out.

[Styles]

For one, how long were your holding her hand, because you made it seem like it was for your whole conversation. Correct me if im wrong on that part. If it was the whole conversation you might of came off as needy and we know thats not what you want to project about yourself. Hold her hand for a couple seconds, then let go just to see the compliance.

[Zudnic]

Have you ever seen the movie Players? One call only and wait a day or two before making first call. When you call no answer message or text short and to the point is best. If no return try once more. She could have been busy and couldn't reply/answer. Frequent text and phoning comes off desperate and needy.....................

[mycer]

I've had similar issues, and i've found something that has worked 2 for 2... not that many times but I've gone days without receiving a response, and this worked both times. So, first of all, after you sent whatever text or phone call that she didnt reply to, wait 2 days! make sure you go 2 days without sending her a text or calling her. then send her a text along these lines;

'it was nice to meet you, another time or should I delete your number? no hard feelings either way.'

i changed the text a bit depending on the girl, but the important thing is that you show that you are willing to delete the number, also show that you do or did enjoy her company (unless it is obvious from your last interaction), and THE MOST IMPORTANT PART is to say that there are no hard feelings either way, that you are indifferent. A girl who told me i was the first to get a date with her in a long while, told me that the fact that i said 'no hard feelings either way' was the ONLY reason that she agreed to a date, after me trying to get a date from her for over 6 months!


anyways i customize the message i send a girl, based on our interaction and what i feel is a natural thing to say... anyways, good luck!

[Zudnic]

I tried my version of delete or ???.... Same one who emailed: have some pictures you'd like to see. No response to my jealous love going to California to busy for a trip at the moment. Then sent a few days latter asking why she thinks I'd like to see her pictures. No response again! So finally wrote:

"I'm not looking for a relationship relationship. Perfect wishful thinking would be friends with benefits, but your not that type of girl. So lets just be email friends? O.K?"

She replied: "I'm O.K with that!"

Granted this girl has been my espresso barista for 3 years so we kind of are friends........................ We joked before about girls being able to get laid anytime, but most guys have to resort to hookers! And other sexual type banter. My next email will be good need more email friends................

[diablo]

Originally Posted by Dreamcatcher

Hi Guys, I joined here after reading the Attraction Code and I after a one full read I can feel that it's truely groundbreaking.

On to my question. On Saturday I sat almost opposite a hot Russian on the same table (long cafeteria type) within a local sandwitch shop and opened situational when a guy tried to squeeze past her as he was leaving. I kept talking about my day then made reference to her accent and started talking about travels to Eastern Europe, comparing the culture and artistry of those places to the west. She became more intrigued and started asking me about myself, I playfully qualified her and she asked me what my good points and bad points were...so I did the same and tested to see if she was adventurous...in many ways. I used that as a reason to hold her hand to playfully read her palm. I kept holding her hand lightly and stoking it softly with my thumb. She left it there and I could tell from her facial expressions she was enjoying it.

We arranged to meet up the next day provided the weather was good and she wasn't seeing her friends to go to the park. I sent her a text saying meet me for a coffee after you're dome with the park. No reply. I called later the next day, but still no reply. This lunchtime I called once but again no pickup. I'm confused by this and don't know what to text or how to frame the message in a way that's dominant, yet not being forceful to suggest we meet. What should I text ? - any ideas would be very appreciated.

Dreamcatcher

there could be a BILLION reasons she didn't pick up
maybe she was just busy dude... people have lives!
brush it off, keep going with you're life
meeting more girls etc.
there is honestly no way to tell if she's gonna flake or not sometimes.

i've have like 1 hour long talks with girls and connected SOOO deep
then i get no call back, no response.
then other times, i'll get a number in 2 minutes and text her the next day and we'll meet that night
and fuck 2 hours later.
there's no way to tell sometimes

accept the process and try not to let any of this phase you