Zen style approach

[Sharkman]

My friends, I have a 4-5 year experience sarging (-1.5 yrs LTR) . Never became a good PUA tough.

My numbers are still mostly from luck , I have learned a great deal about theory but never felt I became a really alpha guy(if there´s such a thing).

I look good am tall ,blonde, skinny, actually a lot of girls look at me wanting to be approached, daily...

My problem comes from my personality, I come from a german (almost nazi) family and my parents were very cold, violent and silent, had to take a lot of shit trough highschool because my family were constantly on the move (13 different schools).

I'm not a charismatic guy , I think people think I judge them , and I really do but now I'm trying to see the good in them and help them feel positive about themselves but sometimes I don't know how. I'm increasing my social network , I am buliding a lot of connections , talking to everybody in my city, altough sometimes I feel awkward, but socializing is being OK , I definetly feel it's helping my life.I'm also trying to find passions in my life and develop a better life plan so I think I'm slowly taking care of that. But now lets get to the source of my problems...

I have a little beef with the natural method...because what I really wanted to do is go straight for the kino and almost rape the girl(I'm not a psycho, or am I...) that would be natural FOR ME... saying:- Hi , I'm Dan... and then escalte ??? . I DON'T MASTURBATE much so I'm extremely horny always ...

What I meant by Zen Approach is that my personality is somewhat laconic , I don't LIKE talking, telling stories much especially to someone I don't know ... maybe just C&F I find it fun , comes easy when I've been rejected in the previous sets I develop a really vendetta mindset (sometimes I can't help it , testosterone surge).

Can I say Hi to a girl and just stare at her and wait for her to initiate something or fill the blanks? Can I just go for the C&F and then ask her number cold?NO STORIES ... I know Vin said time ain't an issue I'm an extreme fella. 30 sec ok ???

[Shuai_Ge]

Well I wouldn't call this "Zen" approach. But I would call it Gunwitch Method. Go check it out, Gunwitch Method is free and online, it suits your style perfectly.

[Lester]

There should be some form of conversation going on.

You asking the questions, and her opening up.

as far as the kino early on, I use to do that... I'd go up to a girl start talking, and be overtly kino with her, and she would give it back and rub on my arm or something...

I dropped it... now it's more about making connections with her with conversation and getting her to open up. and reward her with kino.

the whole touch thing, are you touching her like a horny frat guy... or in a playful way. there is a difference.

oh yeah, don't go up to a girl and say "hi" and don't say nothing while staring at her... she'll weird out... say whatevers on your mind.