It's Vin DiCarlo a dominant man?

[chileno]

Yes, I want that the title keep your attention, so I hope you Vin respond this.

Today I was in clases(college), and some dude hapens to be really loud when he talks, so in clases he ask a few questions, talking slowly and with a loud fucking voice, and two woman siting close to me starting to react to this behavior... Like they where kind of attracted, I also don't understand something so ask a few question but with my calm voice, not loud and not so shy, maybe like your voice Vin, but a little more quickly.

So, I don't like the idea of yell to people so I can feel dominant, and I don't know if this man is triying to impress people(girls) or what, but woman seem to react well to this, it seems like he is very assured person(from the outside), but that's not me, so I'm fuck?.

So what woman think about this?, they think oh what a confident man, I need to sleep with him so I can have dominant man like him?, or: He isn't so dominant because he is triying to get a reaction from people.

Can you help me about this, I read the attraction code and in the old times meanwhile this man do that I said to myself "he is dominat, damn it", now I just listen what is he saying, no matter how confident you look, and also I triying to focus on the content of what I'm doing or intent, you know taking the focus outside of myself.

So is that a dominat trait or what?

[Daniel_B]

You can't be dominant trying to be dominant. First, you must empty all the bullshit in your head that you need to build attraction and look "alpha" and do things "right", then you can proceed.

I just passed on to you one of the greatest things I've learned from one of the most successful people I've met personally. It's very unlikely that you understand it right away, but some day you will. I hope.

[Mr. Incredible]

I don't know if Vin is. I've never met him. I have met Matt, who is one of the DiClassified trainers, and he isn't loud. He just has the air of a guy who really has his shit together. He is what I would call "warm dominant". It's kind of hard to describe, but when you see someone who is really dominant it's like "Ah! That's what a dominant man acts like!" and it kind of clicks into place.

So a guy who is loud is not necessarily dominant.

[chileno]

Daniel_B: Yeah I understand that, it's really simple but profound, I think that I'm like that, the only problem is when I think to much about things. That it's going to be my goal.

Señor Increible: That's nice to know. I hope I meet MAT, must be great find someone to really understand what is like. Like I said I don't like to yell all the time. I'm just going to try to be me, my profund me.
One question man:

Can you describe a little how is "worm dominant"?, I know that you said that is hard, but can you try?. I got some picture but not shure if I'm correct.

Thanks the two of you.

[Mr. Incredible]

I'm sure that any of hte DiClassified Trainers, if you met them, you'd know what it means.

You can also get clues to dominance by watching movies: James Bond is a big example; A lot of the movies with Brad Pitt or George Clooney in them. Any of the Die Hard movies. You just know that these guys' focus is entirely on the other person, they aren't thinking about where they are in the social hierarchy, they are at ease and secure. Sean Connery as James Bond also radiates the knowledge that women want to fuck him. It's in his eye contact, the way that beautiful women don't intimidate him at all.

[Zudnic]

James Bond Connery version is the best example. Or another is Steve McQueen especially when he's in a film building attraction with another female actress. Both Connery and McQueen were pick up artists before they became famous by the way! My former girlfriend and her friends thought Connery is sexy hot and this came from girls in their early 20's. And Connery is older than most of their Grand Parents!

My favorite Connery scene and its not just the Man Talk.

YouTube - Man Talk

Its not just Women its how he is with pretty much every interaction. Another example is Casino Royale look at his first entrance into the hotel. Or The World Is Not Enough bar/casino. How does he treat the staff and gives an impression thats hes someone the bad guy should meeting and dealing with!!!!

[Hengman]

Speaking slowly is a sign of dominance because it shows that we, as men, aren't worried about anything (talking too fast = needy, talking too slow = dumb), etc. It really depends on how you say things than what you say.

Body language is the MOST important thing in gaming, period. No ifs, ands, or buts about it.

[Zudnic]

Real World example of dominance. Had to visit my accountants drop off time cards for payroll. Small parking lot and some a$$hole in a jacked up show type pick up takes up 3 stalls. Doesn't want anyone parking beside him. Walk into the accounts office and see a little guy who you can tell thinks he's the coolest guy on the planet. Tats on the arm goof ball trying way to hard to be tough and cool!

Me: hey buddy that your F350 out front (big friendly smile)

Guy: ya, wanna buy it? (tone like hes got the coolest truck on the planet)

Me: Nope......Learn to park straight (still smiling and with a little laugh your a joke buddy)

Guy says something, all hyper "oh you like that" or something of that nature.

Me: people who can't drive really impress me.. (very sarcastic still being aloof but friendly--like I think he's a joke.)

Guy goes to his truck backs out and sees my getting into mine. Guy starts driving really dead crawl slow, so it makes me wait to back out. Guess he thought I was in a real hurry or something. I leave my car running if I'll only be a second or two. So I look over at him and just laugh like its the funniest thing I have seen that day....... Guy sped up and left!!!

If his cocky I drive the coolest truck so I'm cool with tats attitude was real. He would have stood up to me more. Instead he was a little pussy. If he would have challenged more--- the outcome would have been the same. Cause my demeanor was of no fear. Same reason most Cops end up taking a more aggressive verbal tone with me. They don't scare or intimidate me one bit.... Calm, casual, aloof and friendly warmth during aggressive encounters usually shows tough guys your more dominant! Same thing with hot Women......... When a Cop raises his voice I've won and if they swear I have total victory!!! Had one tell me he could arrest me. "guess they don't teach section 1983 at the police academy!" haha, your a funny little cop, but I'm not only funnier---I'm better than you! Their training is to always stay in control and being dominant in their dealings. They use simular escalation methods as pick up... Its really a reverse mind game being dominant and alpha male!