Forum Rules

[Vin DiCarlo]

Ok real simple guys:

1. No negativity. It's cool to talk about sticking points and give advice in a slightly critical fashion, but please take any flame wars, and self-loathing elsewhere. There are plenty of other forums that like that stuff

2. No spam. There's a difference between self-promotion and spam. Spam is off topic, and devoid of any useful content. If you are contributing to the thread, and want to share a related or useful link, that's fine! Also if you have a product or service you'd like to promote, please share some content to go along with the link(s) in your signature.

I understand that there are a lot of guys out there that have websites these days and / or make their living doing this. These guys usually offer significant value as well. These are the people I'd like to attract, so that they are motivated to share that content with us. And, in exchange, YES you may link to your site.

3. Make your post titles as descriptive as possible. This helps people in the forum find the information they are looking for. Try to make them long and descriptive, with as many descriptive words as possible.

For example:

Good Titles:
How do I attract a girl in my class / school?
How to approach in a daytime pick-up (mall, coffeeshop, etc)?
How do I use the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder in my car?
A method for getting your ex-girlfriend back.

Poor Titles:
school hotties
mall pu
del in car?
ex's

4. Learn what you can, and contribute when you can. Everyone here has something to share, no matter what your skill level is. Even if you think you're a beginner, there's always someone not as far along, and even I am amazed at the things I learn from guys who just get into the game.

My blog postings are up for discussion here - I have disabled comments on the main site so that discussion can take place in a full-featured forum.

This is a science, not a religion. Things are meant to constantly improve and evolve through testing and experience. Anything I contribute to this community is nothing more than a seed, to which YOU can add water so we can both watch it grow into a masterpiece. (That wasn't too corny for you guys, right? )

Vin

[Roulette]

I'm particularly fond of the "no negativity" rule. I find people on these type of forums tend to critizise as a means to exert their dominence over others. Its sad.

[Instinct]

I can second to that!

[code4]

Yeah, amen to the no-negativity rule! Negativity and criticism is a total waste of time and adds nothing to the discussion. And like Vin says, everyone has SOMETHING to offer, no matter how inexperienced they think they are with women.

I used to think I totally sucked with women, but then when I see how much other men struggle with some of this stuff, I realize that I wasn't THAT bad. Not a pick-up artist to be sure, but still having experienced some very memorable moments...

Now that I've decided to actually learn this stuff, it's amazing to look back on my past successes and see how everthing falls right into place with the principles taught by Vin DiCarlo and other Success With Women Gurus even though I didn't have a clue what it was at the time. I used to think that I was just getting lucky. But now I know that it was actually a matter of some very powerful and repeatable "human behavior" principles at work. Principles that guys like Vin DiCarlo have identified, and are teaching...

[LIFEFORCE30]

Got It!!!!!