Question for Approaching, Opening and Hooking

[FreeVerse]

I have a sticking point, but before hat let me say I'm not an average looking guy... and I get this thought that women don't want to be seen as easy in public view... and I'm seen with this "player status" Also when I talk to a woman, it's like I get all these looks from other women. Looks of envy and frustration... like they're mad at me and her... and they're ready to cock block... and occasionally you get the sad ones too.

I can approach women, but when I do I sense they get nervous... and I start feeling it too and it's like I want to get out.

My question is how can I have all this skill and come accross as "approachable" for lack of a better word.

I know you're going to say credibility, well. In this situation. She has a perception of who I am when she sees me.

Funny, the only confident women I spoke too, were not the super-hot looking Hotties, but the ones with personality. I've actually had great conversations with nerdy girls and such.

[diablo]

are you talking about a specific girl here?
or just girls in general get nervous... and have a perception about you?

if you're above average looking... then this nervousness you see is a GOOD THING
and it seems you're takin git as a bad thing
i don't care what anyone says... physically attractive men TURN GIRLS ON.
i've seen it too many times to deny that.
so if you eject when she starts to get nervous cuz she's talking to such an awesome guy... you really drop her self-esteem i bet!
it's good to look at the cold hard facts and realize that because you are physically attractive that girls DO look at you and get turned on... isn't that great?
what an edge you have over the average looking males!

and about this perception of you... you can't read their minds...
you don't really know what they think unless you ask...

how to come across approachable is easy: JUST SMILE

[FreeVerse]

Originally Posted by diablo

are you talking about a specific girl here?
or just girls in general get nervous... and have a perception about you?

if you're above average looking... then this nervousness you see is a GOOD THING
and it seems you're takin git as a bad thing
i don't care what anyone says... physically attractive men TURN GIRLS ON.
i've seen it too many times to deny that.
so if you eject when she starts to get nervous cuz she's talking to such an awesome guy... you really drop her self-esteem i bet!
it's good to look at the cold hard facts and realize that because you are physically attractive that girls DO look at you and get turned on... isn't that great?
what an edge you have over the average looking males!

and about this perception of you... you can't read their minds...
you don't really know what they think unless you ask...

how to come across approachable is easy: JUST SMILE

Word. You got me. I've been projecting my thoughts on others, and I wouldn't want to drop her self-esteem. If she's a girl that is confident then i'll give her a chance to talk to me to show her confidence. Wow. It puts me as the selector even more. Thanks man.