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| O.k. I was at work today. I helped this woman out. It went like this. Her: O.k. I'd like to order that. Me: O.k. I need to write you an order form. Her: O.k. Me: What's your first and last name? Her: (gives her name) Me: What's your phone number? (I usually say "o.k. I need your phone number," but this time I said it in a tone with no a agenda and she got hooked.) YEAH! Her: It's ###-###-#### ... (pause) o.k do you need this for the order form (said playfully) Me: I looked at her, and grinned, without saying anything. Her: I'm not serious (said smiling and playfully rolling her eyes. Me: It's for the order form (still grinning) I wrote the order form and she waited. I got back to the counter and then she went to look at some stuff in the store. I'm sure it's the first time she's been in there. I never seen her before. She got back Me: I asked everybody for their number for the order form. (smiling, being playful) Her: I know. (playfully) Me: Just take it to the register and it should be her in two hours. (she's picking it up tommorrow) Her: O.k. I walk away behind a wall in the counter in my attempts to show the interaction didn't matter to me. She went to the register. Then she came back. Her: I just have to bring the order form her, right? Me: Yeah, I told you that allready. (grinning, being playful, as if she just wanted to come back and see me, which is pretty much true) Her: Nooo. I just wanted to know. Me: Yeah, I believe you. (haha taken from Vin.) so I'm blanking out, she'll probably come tommorrow... and I'm kind of blanking out. I don't really want to further the interactions. I really don't care that much, right now. But, I'm sure it'll be fun to hang out with her. That's why I want to further it. Any suggestions on how I can bring it to the next level. Thanks in advance! ![]() Last edited by FreeVerse : 06-02-2007 at 05:32 AM. |
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| this interaction went well... the energy was good. if you're at work... and you get EVERYONE'S phone number... you want this one to be different. be more direct with your intentions! or she'll think you're just working. doing your job. ex. "i usually take everyone's phone number... and then forget about it... you seem like a nice person... want to get together later tonight?" just an example... you get the point though |
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