Phone and Text Troubleshooting

[the_dicknotist]

Hey guys,

I'm currently working on a girl I met last week-end who I haven't been able to reach by phone, but is very receptive to text messaging. Is there anything special you do in this situation? Can you set up a mutually agreeable time to talk via phone through text? Is it wise to set up Day2s via text?

[FreeVerse]

Texting is different from actual in person talk. You know that saying 93% of our communicating is body Lang and voice tone, Well in text. The words are more important... have you thought of texting her a message of something you and her would do on the date and really enjoy. Use sensual words to describe the experience. Words such as: soft, hard, linger, slow, rapture.

or get her to call you. I forgot who, but someone who taught online pickup had an email if the woman would respond.

It was something like "I know you're taking your time thinking of something to say to impress me, but all you have to do is say Hi." You might want to put that in your own words or say it your own way in a text, and get her to laugh.

[Treasonous]

The point is to make her just get on the phone with you. You can go sneaky if you'd like.

Start with a "Wow, I just saw something that reminded me of you." When she asks "what?" Say, "too long to txt. Call me."

[diablo]

Originally Posted by the_dicknotist

Hey guys,

I'm currently working on a girl I met last week-end who I haven't been able to reach by phone, but is very receptive to text messaging. Is there anything special you do in this situation? Can you set up a mutually agreeable time to talk via phone through text? Is it wise to set up Day2s via text?

i've set up Day2's many times through text.
you CAN skip the phone game.
there are no rules that say- you MUST talk on phone before you talk in person for second time.
TRY IT.
i've got an example of how this worked... i'll post it right now.

[mantispalm]

I hardly ever arrange Day2's by phone. I always do it by text.
Calling mobiles is just too expensive.

If I can build enough value with her, then arranging a day2 by text messaging is as possible as arranging it via voice.

If I feel that I messed up (which I do a lot), then I don't bother using the number at all.
But if the interaction went well, then I text for a day2 and get it.

I have used phone game in the past, where I felt remedial action was neccessary to make up for an interaction where I had a sense of ambiguity about how well I had established my value. But its just not that economic for me, at about 80c per minute.
In this case I've sometimes texted, asking for a home number on a pretext.
But giving a home number isn't as safe as giving a cell phone number.

If you build value, then you will only need to learn the bare minimum of text game.

[the_dicknotist]

Thanks for the feedback guys. I also recently got Vin's "No Flakes" ebook that covers this subject in depth. And it works...I have a Day2 on Thurs!

[Redux]

Originally Posted by mantispalm

I hardly ever arrange Day2's by phone. I always do it by text.
Calling mobiles is just too expensive.

If I can build enough value with her, then arranging a day2 by text messaging is as possible as arranging it via voice.

If I feel that I messed up (which I do a lot), then I don't bother using the number at all.
But if the interaction went well, then I text for a day2 and get it.

I have used phone game in the past, where I felt remedial action was neccessary to make up for an interaction where I had a sense of ambiguity about how well I had established my value. But its just not that economic for me, at about 80c per minute.
In this case I've sometimes texted, asking for a home number on a pretext.
But giving a home number isn't as safe as giving a cell phone number.

If you build value, then you will only need to learn the bare minimum of text game.

Here we don't believe in DHV's and "building value". This isn't indirect game board.