Approach, Opening and Hooking Video Response and an Opener | | I just checked my email and I saw the video link. I peeped it and thought cool. I'm sure Vin and Brian just gave a clue on Drills they do but I'm sure almost anyone can figure that out. Well as I'm listening I'm thinking about the mental state of pua's that are just really getting good at it. I'm not quite that good at it, yet. Well, i'm becoming more aware of this mindset that I HAD.
The mindset that a pick up line has to be this well planned, interesting, executed line that will make her laugh, be intrigue, get sexually turned on, make her fall in love with me as soon as I set it... I know it doesn't work that way. It's actually the simple things that work well... like the opener in the video that Brian had "do you know what a 'blunker' is." Was it "blunkers?"
If I saw this video a couple of months back. I would say "o.k. I know that works." Then I spend almost an hour and 3 pages of paper trying to sculpt this super pick up line. Well NOW, I say to myself "keep it simple" and it totally takes away the stress and I'm imagine me approaching women and saying the simpliest things like "The colors you're wearing say a lot about you." She'll wonder what, and then you can go into a cold reading and then really find out what she's like. Then say, "yup, that's what those color say about you." I know magic so, I know that would work. She'll start to feel vulnerable around you, and if she states it. You can always say "I got you" in tone that says "you're o.k. in my arms."
Well, thanks Vin and Brian.
It was very informative. |